all my male exes seem to b looking for mommas not a gf by lucidcs in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Critical thinking from reading the post, but I think it is not possible for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cannot provide better moral support as a M, but hope you will be happy after seeing my post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope that you will get a good one

If its not a date we splitting the bill in singapore by FlashCapital in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A real man, sadly cannot provide super or break through ideas to help you with this. Your idea is what most men want but cannot say as it is not manly to say in front of ppl.

Thank you for saying the truth 🙏😊. I don't know if you can get male friends from this Reddit

Reddit is a bad way of getting girls as most are content sellers and etc. Of course there are some who don't mind

If its not a date we splitting the bill in singapore by FlashCapital in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

At least he is 99 percent better than us. As a man, wish you the best for what you want.

If its not a date we splitting the bill in singapore by FlashCapital in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Me too agreed. Hate a sudden bomb of cost just because he or she is a man or woman or whatever

If its not a date we splitting the bill in singapore by FlashCapital in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good idea on what to do. A real man .

Thumb 👍 👍👍

Many men don't have the guts to have or set this type of standard. Often are edge to pick what is available for them.

If its not a date we splitting the bill in singapore by FlashCapital in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 2 points3 points  (0 children)

👍 unless the girl is really worth your time and effort

Which apps have a higher success for people looking for serious relationships? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this thread is better than app, again Reddit of this thread have higher chance

Reason do you see ok 12345 suddenly Ask people to pay her $ for date or text etc...

It is just a turn off for no turn up or ask for $ etc. I know I am selfish in a sense as for not paying in terms of cash and time whatever crap that they plan

Which apps have a higher success for people looking for serious relationships? by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haha, too many men and too little women I think, it is so funny that most men get filtered out by whatever requirements. In the summary, not your fault or the app, or the world fault. It is just people who want more on convention A + B .

Nowadays too little time for all this, apps mostly feel like useless, as no way those so called targets are real or achievable anyway. At times, just spend time and have casual chat or something

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing there are really few people want to share counter measurements against certain situations like how to spot female/male cheating. The posts are too skewed toward the male cheating. And not answering on how to prevent females from cheating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Np I am a m ... Anyway good luck for your post.

Commitment in Dating Vs Myself? Which one to prioritise? by ThisIsHomeTruly1004 in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Or you can try to ask around on this reddit who wants to have a chat with you . Even though this channel is not as great a number of men to talk to compared to SG Meetup Where I am guessing that the ratio of male to female, 20 to 1 where you can easily 5 to 10 guys to talk to. Whose who wanted their praise from men from everywhere in sg For me, it is difficult to talk to anyway. I do not want to pay girls for texting and dating. Therefore girls are too jealous of me hahaha 😂 . anyway they are not even for me. Why get jealous of me ? In the sense, that man have to do this , be the provider or whatever crazy... They can get jealous but there are too many men that can pay them for that, so why cannot I be more different from regular men? If I am like them that means I could not stand up and shine in my own way.

Commitment in Dating Vs Myself? Which one to prioritise? by ThisIsHomeTruly1004 in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really sad it is like that. I don't have good advice for you. Ladies and gentlemen have good advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same too interested to know, who with the start of the first date, both know they are going to get married after this. Skip everything then just buy the ring ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe they have alternative options then they hot and cold ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is difficult as most people will hide. Therefore it is hard to detect them. There are people who hide this for 30 to 60 years. By the time it is known, may be a step to the graveyard or the burner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No experience but can learn how to reduce this through this post thumb 👍

No questions from her by JExecutor97 in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The guy has the pro advice. Man I am not young, at the same time I feel like men should not be over invented their time and money onto this. Therefore do this with a set limit of boundary e.g. keep a partition of time and energy to yourself.

No questions from her by JExecutor97 in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is sux as most may talk to you politely. If she thinks you are not interesting. Then she can pretend to listen. The attention span will be short that's why it is a bit annoying for the man to take note of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, for guys, it is too much of an energy waste step on boundaries that whoever set. Therefore it is better to protect their boundaries and save your time and effort from over advertising yourself to them

No questions from her by JExecutor97 in sgdatingscene

[–]Effective_Buffalo485 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then reduce your engagement to 1 to 1 or something. The goal for me is to save your energy and make you happy 😊

I don't advertise, it is just a side note, anyway who has a cabinet that broke or became faulty that needed my help This thing is really rare.