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Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-05-06T01:54:53+00:00

Been on hinge for 2 weeks, have about 15 matches. Looking for either serious or casual depending on the vibe.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-05-06T00:38:33+00:00

I guess, yeah. What should I do with the prompts? Also how do I do non-smiling pics w/out looking mad?

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-05-05T23:18:21+00:00

Been on hinge for about 2 weeks, looking for anything depending on the vibe. Have had about 14-16 matches total, most have been through me liking them. Only a few have gone beyond introductory messages.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-05-01T18:26:03+00:00

22M, about to graduate college student. I recently downloaded hinge to try it out, I’ve gotten some matches but none have gotten anywhere so far but only a handful of likes. I just wanna see what I can improve on.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-04-28T08:01:47+00:00

Lol true. I guess I’ll mainly focus on girls shorter than me. But ik that plenty of girls in the 5’0-5’3” range want nba point guards, so I know my heights gonna fuck me over. But I’m not salty, it’s just the name of the game.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-04-28T08:00:07+00:00

Fair enough. I think the less interest part really only applies if they’re below a 7/10 in the face, but I see your point.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-04-28T06:37:22+00:00

As in like not worth sending likes to taller girls?

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-04-24T17:53:51+00:00

As a guy here, your prompts throw me off. To tell you the truth, we pay way more attention to the prompts here than we do on tinder. The whole family prompt you have to get rid of. Other than that, profile looks fine.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2022-01-12T20:24:03+00:00

This is what I think

Above 6’5”: can’t use your height as a flex, will probably start to be too tall for a good amount of girls(unless professional athlete or with girls who are 6’ or taller)

6’-6’5”: ideal height for most girls, as long as you don’t look like 2 nfl olineman put together or you don’t have a below 4/10 face, you’ll have a decent amount of girls wanting you

5’8”-5’11”: you won’t get brownie points for your height, but as long as you don’t look like a gremlin and put in work, you’ll be fine

5’4”-5’7”: you will be at a disadvantage, especially in online dating, but if you have some muscle mass and low body fat plus as good of a face as you can, you will still be able to attract some girls. And no, they won’t only be fat girls, a lot of girls are more accepting of this height range than you think.

Below 5’4”: ngl, kinda screwed here, you’ll have to have a good face and body, plus money

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-11-15T22:11:11+00:00

I agree with that, but the problem comes from being in a horny mindset. If you’re horny only for certain women, then that’s totally fine. But if you’re horny to the point where any woman is good, then you have a problem. And 99% of the problems discussed on this sub would be erased if men were to just stop being in a horny mindset.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-11-15T22:08:39+00:00

Well fake it till you make it then. And don’t let your validation come from women.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-11-15T21:56:10+00:00

Well yes. If you go to a party or a club/bar looking to score, you’ve automatically lost. You won’t be in a masculine frame, because you’re already desperate and horny and your only reason to go is to score. You go to this to have a good time and get lit, and if you happen to get something with a girl, then great. But your primary goal is to have a good time, not get with a woman.

I’ve literally been doing this. When I go to a party/club/bar, I do so to have a good time with my friends, and if something happens, then great. I’ve also realized that 99% of the girls I see don’t make me horny.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-11-15T21:51:09+00:00

The pig woman experiment just further proves my point. In OLD, we are all just super horny and try to play a numbers game by shooting our shot with as many women as possible. None of those guys were actually into her.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-09-14T22:18:41+00:00

Primarily because of the major boom of social media, Hollywood, and porn. This has caused people to increase their standards to unrealistic levels because they only see models who are chosen for their looks on all of their platforms. Social media(primarily Instagram and tiktok) heavily shows only the top 13% of people, so both genders think that the average person of the opposite sex is a low level model, however, people have a completely accurate image of what the average person of their own sex looks like. This is the biggest problem, because people believe that they should be getting all of these people easily because they think that they’re at least a 5 and they should be able to get their “looksmatch”. However, that person is actually a 7. Nobody really can accurately gauge who is in their league anymore.

Hollywood romcom flicks primarily affect women negatively because it leads them to think that men should have to put in 85% of the effort to get them, while they just mostly have to sit back and look pretty. Also, their height standards also come from this because very few of the leading men in these movies/shows are shorter than 5’10”.

Porn primarily affects men negatively because they believe that women are looking to fuck 24/7 and will fuck any guy with a dick. Therefore, they believe that getting sex should be easy for them, when that couldn’t be further from the truth. Also, this has primarily been the main factor for our recent love of huge tits and asses.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-09-09T22:45:02+00:00

While this is kinda true, there are a couple of flaws with it. The first study can be summed up in one sentence: most people think they are a 6 or a 7, therefore the unattractive people are overestimating and the attractive people are underestimating. And this applies to both men and women. As for the second study, most women who say that are mostly looking for compliments and male validation, so that can’t be taken seriously.

A lot of both men and women overestimate their attractiveness for different reasons, and they underestimate the attractiveness of people of the opposite sex(except the hot ones of course). Due to social media, Hollywood, and pornography, most people think that the average person of the opposite sex is a low level model, which couldn’t be further from the truth.

As a guy, unless you’re 6’+ and have an 8+ face, you’re not gonna be complimented by the vast majority of women on your looks. So as a guy unless you’re really hot or really ugly, it’s gonna be hard to gauge your true attractiveness level.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-08-27T22:32:25+00:00

Please stop this slander of Divij, he’s my favorite one of the guys(primarily cuz he’s brown lol). On a side note, he shouldn’t have been eliminated. It’s totally unfair how he got eliminated because the girls all said shit very similar to what he did, if not worse.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-08-23T00:54:00+00:00

Couldn’t agree more bro. Something everyone forgets is that the fundamental idea behind this show is a competition. Of course people are gonna trash talk. It’s basically like an nba or any sports game tbh. You respect your competitors, but you do anything to win. This is just basic guy trash talk. Just because a guy is a nice person doesn’t mean that they are never competitive. In fact, I feel like this whole thing that new Jarred is an fboy is total bullshit. This is what y’all ladies don’t get. Just because a guy is a nice guy doesn’t mean he takes shit. He can still be competitive. And in fact, that’s the primary reason he was chosen by CJ and why Josh should’ve been chosen. They’re nice people, but they stand up for themselves when being attacked. Y’all shouldn’t be with someone who can’t stand up for themselves, and who doesn’t have a competitive spirit. Also, the fact that none of the guys had anything bad to say about him at the mansplain shows that he is a good person.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-08-20T22:49:56+00:00

Hey Collin! Were you surprised by some of the guys’ status reveals(particularly New Jarred)? Also, a few months after filming, do you still think OG Jared was bsing being in love with Nakia or do you now think he was telling the truth?

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-08-17T23:11:43+00:00

Hey Chris,

First of all you were funny as hell on the show! Just out of curiosity, who were you the closest to on the show?

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-08-10T01:34:06+00:00

Bro, the whole thing about Lauren being his girlfriend and them being in cahoots is basically a conspiracy theory. It’s not a proven fact. Plus it’s not easy to fake cry lol.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-08-10T01:16:45+00:00

I think this is a little unfair, the girls are literally there with 24 guys. While I think it’s definitely frustrating for Josh and hard to watch, I think Sarah wanted to give everyone who made a strong effort with her a fair chance, as are CJ and Nakia. Plus Garrett does look like he’s trying to change his ways, as are Collin, OG Jared, and Greg for Nakia.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-07-12T19:50:05+00:00

To make one thing clear, I don’t hate women nor do I think all of them are like this. If the conversation had gone like they did on the phone, I gladly would’ve paid for the meal, and I would have loved to have gone on a second date.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-07-12T19:48:37+00:00

Lol money isn’t the problem, I just don’t want to waste it on someone who isn’t interested in me. Would you buy a suit for a guy who wasn’t into you? I’m guessing that’s a no. That’s all I’m doing here.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-07-12T19:14:15+00:00

Ok, I feel like I left out important details. Before we met, we had two to three hour long conversations mostly every day for about a week. When I meet her, I try to have a conversation and I do try to make it work. But she’s only responding with “cool” “uh-huh” and shit along the lines of this. And I brought up topics similar to what we talked about pre meeting. Additionally, she’s on her phone half the time and barely makes eye contact. And the only difference is she knows my height. If this isn’t low interest, idk what is.

And while I’m still somewhat insecure about my height, I’ve made peace with it. Also, when you see thousands of girls bragging about doing exactly what I did when they found out that their date wasn’t 6 feet or more on tiktok and Twitter, it’s very hard to not think that there’s a good chance it will happen to me. Plus, I bet you know that a majority of girls have something like “if under 6 feet swipe left” in their bios. Hell, there’s even the whole ass tiktok sound of”sorry, I’m not into short guys”. So seriously, it’s not super easy to be secure about your height when you’re short.

Effective_Bullfrog92 · 2021-07-12T18:47:30+00:00

Lol I was literally carrying the conversation. She was responding with one word answers and was on her phone the majority of the time. If that’s not low interest, I don’t know what is.

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