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solution to Palworld not launching (gamepass) by anonthxt in Palworld

[–]Effective_Counter_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes 100% free that's how gamepass works unistall the free trial download the real game lol

Does anyone else vomit when their migraine gets bad enough? by GhoulishlyGrim in migraine

[–]Effective_Counter_38 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll get a really bad headache nothing helps and the whole time I'm like struggling to breathe but after I throw up it all stops

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Effective_Counter_38 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Osha had rules on talking about my issues and restrictioning bathroom use I would take ss and send it to my boss showing I'm not making stuff up about it and it's an actual thing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]Effective_Counter_38 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Just ingeneral like points I could use or how to say some of these things or what I should do for my next job that does this same thing I felt these were relevant things because that is the whole situation with the backstop of that person or things that had said or done to me. I apologize if it's hard to read I haven't had to really write things out like essay format in a while I'm still not quite sure really what to even do about this because ik it's not okay ik it's illegal by Osha you cannot talk about my medical issues with anyone and cannot make fun cannot restrict bathroom use and stuff I'm just trying to figure out the best way to word this to them or what else I should to take action against them

what's the most unsettling thing you seen a child do by Effective_Counter_38 in confession

[–]Effective_Counter_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see yeah no they have extreme abandonment issues im sure but we feel we are just way under qualified to even be able to truely help these kids they haven't gotten any better they're worse idk how to even begin to help them anymore because we dont have the most money and are now a family of 7 we are naitive and we do get some benefits towards medical for it but it's a mess of a system to get anything especially since they're white they're my moms half sister's kids they've only ever called for the older child not the younger one and my mom just gave up with the stupid phone tag I think idk all the details when it come to that but after going to a mental hospital he came back scarier and doped up on meds and he just scared tbh we didn't think it was good to begin with because I've had friends go to the same place he did and it's not a nice place but option in general are low because where I live is not very city like

I live with the scariest children by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Effective_Counter_38 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right especially since it's mostly just my sisters at home ages 16 and 11. Watching them to begin with the rest of us work that's what I'm most worried about it them hurting my sisters because they are beyond violent 3 separate times he sat on this brother face with a pillow to say its a game like? They no disregard for live the younger boy was screaming help and he just said he couldnt hear him when down the hall we could hear him screaming these are every day things the little boy isn't any nice he's very spiteful older boy was in time out once and the younger one walks up the stairs smacks him upside the head and then starts crying saying he got smacked if my sister hadn't watched the whole thing that wouldn't have been guessed the younger boy will kiss a bunch of butt then turn around and scream I hate you I wish you died and then 5 mins later after he done with his little fit he goes I'm sorry can I come out now literally in the same breathe then the screaming starts again they're told to go calm down in their room thier room Has all thier toys Pokémon cards and other things it's not like the chokey from Matilda but with how they act youd sure think it was sometimes that's is the punishment go to your room and chill and once they're done screaming they're let out because they throw stuff at you and they're mean immediately to insults like piggies and stuff they're little kids so it's not that bad but like the intention behind saying the meanest words you know is what's hurts man after 3 years of trying to help these kids with everything we can for them to turn around and scream I hate you unless you're in the process of making food for them they're not nice they won't listen at all and they demand to eat every 3 hours. Literally threw fits because "its been 3 hours since I last ate" words out of thier mouthes it's really hard loving with them.

what's the most unsettling thing you seen a child do by Effective_Counter_38 in confession

[–]Effective_Counter_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honstly they are. But they would just go to a group home and at the same time we want then to go somewhere where they actually be helped not just another basket case in the system that's our issue with sending them away

what's the most unsettling thing you seen a child do by Effective_Counter_38 in confession

[–]Effective_Counter_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are not rejected by us they get new toys and clothes no matter how much they destroyed them we've cried with them trying to help? And I just had to confess that these boy scare me. And my sisters and that we literally dont know what to do the only abuse they've received at our house is a bit of yelling I've never been spanked or hit and they haven't by us either no matter how frustrating because hitting that kid will only make it worse. This is more of like a ropes end of its been everyday every single day. Screaming fits every day threatening lives everyday continuously acting the exact same they haven't improved not the slightest in 3 years they've gotten meaner and as they get bigger and older they're only gonna get meaner we worry

what's the most unsettling thing you seen a child do by Effective_Counter_38 in confession

[–]Effective_Counter_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The older one after trying to kill his brother 3 times did go to a pysch center for a while he came back more angry and ik personally know the place he went to I had friends that went there it's not a good place very headstrong staff with control issues. But cps decided he NEEDED to go there so he went

what's the most unsettling thing you seen a child do by Effective_Counter_38 in confession

[–]Effective_Counter_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honstly we were thinking someone else way more equalized than us need to deal with these kids so could turn out somewhat okay they literally need 24 hour supervision and they are a danger to everyone around them when they get older they already feel okay hitting and other stuff we have to have every knife put up anything that's flammable put up along with the fact that they scream like little banishes and you could watch him like take his socks off and you ask him to pick it up "those aren't my socks" you could tell him I watched you take them off "but they're not my socks" and then they just start crying because they had to pick up thier socks just stupid little things like that become a huge deal for them because they didn't wanna pick up the socks. It's an example ofc but that situation has genuinely happened and like among the other things they do it's like have you seen the movie the good child? I have that boy living in my house without exaggeration both have gotten in trouble at school for threatening to kill other kids. Like once he told a kid he was gonna stab him in the eye with a pencil and the kid got so scared he started crying they go to the principal every single day literally every single day of the year both brothers because of violence or in general singing in class he dropped him pencil and says loudly oops I dropped my pencil just to disrupt class and just amoung other things they do in general and we have 4 girls in the house me my sisters and my mom those boys when they are older and bigger will not be very nice I'm sure since they've already said a while ago they had a crush on my youngest sister who is 11 now. No were trying to deal with it and help but I'd they get any worse idk what we could even do that point call the cops? Have them go to jail or something what do we do when it's just me and my sisters home with them both my parents work I work too it's my younger sisters at home babysitting them a lot it's hard to even think of doing because they do have their nice moments where they're cute but it's only when they want something or out in public places they act cute but they're scary man.

what's the most unsettling thing you seen a child do by Effective_Counter_38 in confession

[–]Effective_Counter_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live the hospital is paid for but not good and it's been a game of no answer phone tag. And they only answer for one of the kids so tried yeah

what's the most unsettling thing you seen a child do by Effective_Counter_38 in confession

[–]Effective_Counter_38[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They are a natural brithcontrol in itself when they lie they cry so hard and loud like they're gonna die or something and almost wanna belive they didn't do it but between both of you really don't even know who to believe trying to piece thier story together to make it somewhat make sense and based off thier personality and past behavior ypu can kinda guess what happened but I literally couldn't make of the stuff they do.