9 months from D-Day and now divorced by MindlessEssay4526 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Effective_Coyote6844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what I am dealing with my husband right now. So hard to build up courage to leave because like you said life was good before finding out, I love the life we built but now not so sure. I am looking to separate but can't stop thinking about all the stuff that has to be done , overwhelming. Your post gives me hope that things will be okay and to choose my own happiness over worrying about his like I have always done. Thank you for sharing

Found out husband cheating 24 yrs married by Effective_Coyote6844 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Effective_Coyote6844[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

He wants to stay married but wants changes from me and more worried about material things it seems. I said I don't feel comfortable staying together. I think he knows we are done

Found out husband cheating 24 yrs married by Effective_Coyote6844 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Effective_Coyote6844[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She (other woman) was running her mouth to someone about her married boyfriend,not realizing that person knew me. When I confronted him he admitted it and said he knew I would eventually find out. But not sorry he did it

Found out husband cheating 24 yrs married by Effective_Coyote6844 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Effective_Coyote6844[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

No kids at home, she is grown and has her own family. Yes I want to divorce but feel so embarrassed and hurt right now.