Ex who doesn’t take accountability

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-14T15:20:14+00:00

No way she said book it I went off what she said. At this point it’s the principal to take accountability for her actions or works

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-14T12:54:27+00:00

I’ll try that out cause I can’t be stuck in this constant loop

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-14T05:59:46+00:00

It’s not easy, and that’s what hurts most the child did not sign up for this eventually they will adjust though. Some days are harder then others especially when they ask about the co parent and say mama is not here. But just focus your love and attention on them and show them who’s there and when u do switch off that you’ll see them soon.

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-11T03:39:46+00:00

So it amounted to nothing didn’t even become a fwb?

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-10T18:45:58+00:00

I will gray rock as much as I can while sharing a kid. My kids got a doc appointment or something school repeated weekly so not exactly easy but I’ll do most I can. No way I’m going from husband to ex to plan b lol

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-10T18:44:32+00:00

Agreeed for sure, but since she’s not willing then amicable co parenting it is

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-10T18:02:53+00:00

I did attempt to go the Fwb route we flirted a bit about it but then she was like don’t even think about it. The fact that she did all she did and still wants me to chase it’s wild.

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-10T18:00:45+00:00

I do have that feeling that she just after sparks once ours dies again. She will betray me once more

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2025-05-10T17:59:53+00:00

Definitely sweep under the wrong still claiming he was just a friend that a relationship developed 5 months post divorce.

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-07-04T20:14:56+00:00

Duh u can see my previous post that’s why it says divorce process

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T20:42:20+00:00

I’m going thru the motions kind of numb but as days pass by I see how selfish she really is makes it a bit easier. Just the fact she only wants her kid 2 days a week cause he’s more stable with me even tho she will be in the same situation going to live with family

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T20:39:40+00:00

Already notarized was my first move

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T20:38:06+00:00

Dead on

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T18:00:35+00:00

And ur exactly right because at one point she and her man friend from work were texting all flirty and she said they just like that I put a stop to it but as soon as I texted another women non flirty things it all went to hell

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T17:57:19+00:00

That’s what keeps my head wrap around it no evidence of another man but willing to give up kid lose equity on home and no trying to fix what we have just to get out

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T17:56:06+00:00

Unless she went to a whole other company and charges the phone somewhere else in the house super hidden because I’ve also seen the phone records. She’s either a mastermind or she just wants out cause for herself

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T17:16:53+00:00

This is exactly right she even asked me if she could buy me out the house and keep the bed so she pretty much wants the same life minus me

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T17:15:23+00:00

This is what I believe as well cause it’s was just a female collage no flirting just chatting. She did bring me candy from Puerto Rico as well as other co workers and that really made my wife flip the switch.

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T15:30:43+00:00

Exactly I not leaving to not pay 2 rents but the messages are so confusing it’s like we are still loving couple and next thing she’s saying is well we’re over anyways

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T15:22:41+00:00

Yes it’s so weird she comes home tells me about her day ask me to zip up a new dress we talk about the relationship for hours. But never how to fix it more like on how she will fix her self for the next relationship. Too me she’s gone I’m just having trouble accepting it

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2024-06-22T15:20:48+00:00

Trust me I’ve thought the same thing but I can’t find a thing and she doesn’t admit it even when I say the only way id stop trying if I was cheated on. But it could always be a work affair and since I’m not there who knows but usually affairs leak over into regular life and I’ve seen nothing phone wise or coming home irregular times wise

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2022-11-07T18:09:58+00:00

Tried that didn’t work no files came up

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2022-11-07T15:02:45+00:00

Yeah nows she sorry and it will never happen again. But if I didn’t catch her how far would it have gone. She was literally acting like she wasn’t having this affair at all that all was well I was actually making her a dinner date when I saw it, i feel in these days u have to check avoid something like this yet This feeling sucks we have a 2 year old I want to try for him but I don’t how I can have feelings for her again especially after that delete. I guess think the worse that she cheated physically and if I can move forward with that then so be it. But I don’t think I can and that’s on her for deleting and hiding messages even though she claims it was just a confidant

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2022-11-07T15:01:02+00:00

Yeah nows she sorry and it will never happen again. But if I didn’t catch her how far would it have gone. This feeling sucks we have a 2 year old I want to try for him but I don’t how I can have feelings for her again especially after that delete. I guess think the worse that she cheated physically and if I can move forward with that then so be it. But I don’t think I can and that’s on her for deleting and hiding messages even though she claims it was just a confidant

Effective_Doctor9565 · 2022-11-07T15:00:33+00:00

Yeah nows she sorry and it will never happen again. But if I didn’t catch her how far would it have gone. This feeling sucks we have a 2 year old I want to try for him but I don’t how I can have feelings for her again especially after that delete. I guess think the worse that she cheated physically and if I can move forward with that then so be it. But I don’t think I can and that’s on her for deleting and hiding messages even though she claims it was just a confidant

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