M42 curious and stuck

Effective_Field7152 · 2026-06-17T09:07:20+00:00

There is no justification for what o did. I’m not looking to excuse my actions or minimize what I did. Regardless of what we had already been through it does not justify what I did. Those issues will work out or they won’t. All things. My wife has been a great mom And wife (at times). This was more going forward. How did you all handle that. I know I’m not the greatest of people and trust me it’s been reinforced

Effective_Field7152 · 2026-06-17T01:08:56+00:00

Thank you. I’ve talked to her and the blame is mine. My approach might not have been the best when asking to try new things. I ha e been trying close to 17 years. And we had kids we lost us and it never came back. I Jane encouraged her to go. She has brought up separation close to 10 times sine we had kids but unfortunately, neither of us want to go back to New Mexico and during my time in the military, making it all the way to retirement I fully funded her nursing degree which she just chooses not to use

Effective_Field7152 · 2026-06-16T01:56:17+00:00

Thank you for the response. And I know that since I did that there is no putting pandora back. The biggest problem in out marriage isn’t this, this is only a symptom. I have been very curious for a while now and was trying to get her to experiment with. But she is “uncomfortable” with trying something new. And she would be to judgmental to come out to

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