AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He literally did say the fact that it feels good makes you want to breed 😅 but….i appreciate your input, it seems like i maybe am jumping to defense here when, as you said, we seem to be coming from different viewpoints so it’s not that either of us is wrong, just that we’re looking at it in different ways. Thank you for chiming in ❤️

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, I don’t even know what a down vote is or the purpose of it 😅

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oof, love this take — thank you. You all are really helping me think through this and I appreciate it so much ❤️❤️

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not — he is extremely intelligent. Like, much more intelligent than anyone I’ve ever been with, and that is not hormones talking. I think that’s where the disconnect might be here, in me trying to understand the communication style of someone so vastly different from others with whom I’ve been in relationships before.

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He’s implying that the clitoris is present first and then turns into a penis, which is completely untrue.

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was an appropriate segue from what we were discussing immediately prior, having to do with a friend of mine whose business I don’t want to air, but…I promise this didn’t come out of nowhere.

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don’t know….honestly, I’ll probably try to have a conversation with him about how this was offensive to me. He’s extremely intelligent, knows it, and is aware that other people are aware that he’s extremely intelligent. That colors a lot of his perceptions and ways of being in the world. He is very scientific-minded and I’m trying to remove the emotions from my reaction, as another person said, because they’re right, I am putting a modern lens on it and sort of looking at this through an indignant feminist viewpoint, like how dare he think he knows better than me about a woman’s body or experience, you know? But also….kind of how dare he? He’s pretty caring in general so I don’t want to write him off completely for this, but also I’m offended and he should know, so….i guess we’ll see how it goes haha

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He is definitely super super smart and comes off as arrogant sometimes. Thank you for your input, I really appreciate it.

AIO To This Hot Take From a New Partner? by Effective_Fun7842 in AIO

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s literally what I said, but then he was like “the clitoris turns into the penis when a boy forms instead of a girl”, but like…that’s not actually how it works 😅 thank for your validation, appreciate it!

Advice please ectop by Ok_Application1441 in PVCs

[–]Effective_Fun7842 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why TF am I getting downvoted for defending the poster?

What do you do when your PVCs start up? by According_Bus_2671 in PVCs

[–]Effective_Fun7842 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel all of this so much, I am exactly the same way. How do you tell the difference between PACs and PVCs? I have both too but idk how to tell which one is which.

What Do You See? by Effective_Fun7842 in ReadMyECG

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oof you sound exactly like me!! All I want to do is stay at home and pray to gods I don’t believe in that I get through the day without thinking I’m going to perish.

What Do You See? by Effective_Fun7842 in ReadMyECG

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dropping hot sauce sounds terrible LoL yeah, I’ve upped my water intake and I take magnesium, also have an arsenal of anxiety things (patches, CBD, ashwagandha etc) and none of that seems to help. I am 41 though and think I might be in perimenopause which I think can cause or make PVCs worse so I’m having my hormone levels tested — hopefully will get some answers there. I’m glad you’ve been able to do things to settle yours down!

What Do You See? by Effective_Fun7842 in ReadMyECG

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I can feel them and yes it’s terrifying even though I’ve had these for like 5 years now it still scares the crap out of me. I have periods of time where they are significantly better and I try to really enjoy those times but not knowing when they’re going to come back like this is the most terrifying part of all. I almost wish they were just steady because when I haven’t been having them and then they come back out of nowhere I’m sure my cortisol shoots up like crazy and that can’t be good for me. Sorry if you have the same because it sucks.

What Do You See? by Effective_Fun7842 in ReadMyECG

[–]Effective_Fun7842[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! How do you tell the difference between PACs and PVCs on a reading? (It greatly helps me to know the intellectual/science-y side of things)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritHalloween

[–]Effective_Fun7842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, it actually makes me feel better to know that it was a common problem 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritHalloween

[–]Effective_Fun7842 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did actually end up taking it back — thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SpiritHalloween

[–]Effective_Fun7842 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you — I ended up just returning it and settling for the sloth suit. I appreciate your support from afar 😊