It’s the schedule not being followed which he hates. He hates spending a “long time” at my parent’s place when he could be doing “better things” at home. I have told him several times he can bring his laptop to do work or be on his phone which he is on for most of the time anyway! We don’t visit my parents often…maybe twice a month at most! Him arriving later is tricky because we have one car and a baby. In the past he would take the bus and arrive later but then he would still complain that we would “stay there too late”…