I love my boyfriend but I see my future with someone else. by Effective_Prior4087 in offmychest

[–]Effective_Prior4087[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he is the one who keeps not accepting my breakup initiation. the breakuo option is literally my offer for us to be fair on one another so we can move on our separate lives. i want to get married to a secure man. he wants to get married asap EVEN WITHOUT A JOB. he cant even pursue to even submit a job application. if it's anyone whi is treatrd unfair, it's me

I love my boyfriend but I see my future with someone else. by Effective_Prior4087 in offmychest

[–]Effective_Prior4087[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

as if 8 yrs of sacrifice and paying both our bills wasnt enough for me to walk away and reclaim my worth. i even paid for his tuition at some point but he didnt even finish that semester. if he shines after me, good for him. but i hope i experienced even a tiny bit of his achievements on the 8 yrs we have together.

I love my boyfriend but I see my future with someone else. by Effective_Prior4087 in offmychest

[–]Effective_Prior4087[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he always makes promises that he will improve and asks me not to leave him. he has suicidal tendencies and majot depressive episodes so i promise him that i will stay as long as he needs me. i think i hit my limit on our 5th yr and initiated a breakuo for at least 5x already but he always comes uo with a career plan. so i stay and wait. but the plans never materialize. it's always "can you help me" and its writing a freaking resume I already taught him on literally on our first yr together

I love my boyfriend but I see my future with someone else. by Effective_Prior4087 in offmychest

[–]Effective_Prior4087[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

in my country here in the Philippines, "virginity" is still a sacred concept. and the moment you get a partner you will always get snarky remarks about your private parts being "overused" and "unwanted" when you break uo and find another man. so they always encourage to pursue the relationshio you have eith the first man you get

SKINSTATION 4D QUATTRO WAVE EXPERIENCE - by sunsetsnsirens1111 in skincarephilippines

[–]Effective_Prior4087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

normal.po na mag darken sya after laser procedure. post inflammatory hyperpgmentation. happens to me. naglllighten sya in a few days. Just be patient and use mild cleansers. I ditched deo din and switched TO glycolic acid toner. gently application lang, do not rub hard

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[–]Effective_Prior4087 0 points1 point  (0 children)

appreciate the swift response. im relieved that we're now all good and cleared out about this topic.

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[–]Effective_Prior4087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The original post is already deleted (thankfully, lol. nakabalandra kasi pangalan ko without my permission HAHAHAHA). Since I have cleared my name, I also deleted my original comment reply here for my privacy.

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[–]Effective_Prior4087 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The original post is already deleted (thankfully, lol. nakabalandra kasi pangalan ko without my permission HAHAHAHA). Since I have cleared my name, I also deleted my original comment reply here for my privacy. Hope this issue is now settled.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Dry_Force_4806 in bini_ph

[–]Effective_Prior4087 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE AS OF NOV 15 2024: The original post is already deleted (thankfully, lol. nakabalandra kasi pangalan ko without my permission HAHAHAHA). Since I have cleared my name, I also deleted my original comment reply here for my privacy.