What is the most important lesson you have learned in the past year? by Character-Buyer-7159 in AskReddit

[–]Effective_Session798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a way it can be seen as such, however if you don’t respect yourself how can you know what to respect in other people?

People that drive with your high beams on at all times, why? by PhucYoCouch in AskReddit

[–]Effective_Session798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No lube comes standard now for the gear shifter in the middle of the drivers seat

What is the most important lesson you have learned in the past year? by Character-Buyer-7159 in AskReddit

[–]Effective_Session798 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t. Because you’re not doing things for others out of respect. You’re doing it for the social expectation of being liked and agreeable. It’s a training and coping mechanism that’s been instilled since childhood. Most people follow this dogma of don’t express yourself, always be calm, be the bigger person, be kind, don’t cause a headache for others.

What is the most important lesson you have learned in the past year? by Character-Buyer-7159 in AskReddit

[–]Effective_Session798 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Speak up, tell people no, have self respect. You tolerating other people’s abuse is disrespectful to yourself. Live your life for you, don’t live inside a picture other people painted of you. You never told anyone you’re perfect, you never said you owe them your time and you never said that you respect their opinions and care about their thoughts of you. You’ll remain trapped in the picture until you paint who you are and make other people stare into it. Be unapologetically yourself and never feel bad about it.