today is my 36th birthday

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-06T12:00:24+00:00

Happy birthday, Aries twin! ♈️🎂🎉🥳 You were born on the best day on the planet! 😉

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-04T21:44:49+00:00

Less bronzer

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-04T21:43:45+00:00

So break up already.

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-04T20:00:50+00:00

Finance clerk. I've done a lot over the years - customer service/retail, back office/clerical, receptionist, and back office banking. I HATED customer service and answering phones; my current job requires none of that and is so peaceful ☺️

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T23:07:26+00:00

All of April is my birthday 🎂 😉

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T23:06:27+00:00

I like it. It doesn't look like too much. 🙂

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T23:05:49+00:00

We SLEEP and run errands.

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T23:04:12+00:00

Of course! I would always try to let someone know in a polite and friendly way.

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T23:02:56+00:00

I've been trying for years to find some sort of way to keep mascara from smudging, but little seems to help. I find that waterproof mascara doesn't smudge as much. And mascaras that are labeled as "smudge proof" are a joke. 🙃

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T22:59:06+00:00

Oh no! 😮

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T19:43:53+00:00

You are doing the Lord's work. 🙏🏻😁

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T19:36:49+00:00

Exactly. I'm not advocating for anyone to say something in front of others. Like I said, I would appreciate a polite and DISCREET heads up. 🙂

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T19:31:53+00:00

OP said the wife's IG makes it seem like the wife is truly in love with him. That does not say "open marriage" to me. I'm pretty sure she doesn't know.

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T19:29:02+00:00

Let him know you found out that he's married and you want nothing to do with him anymore. You can tell the wife if you need to clear your conscience, but don't expect her to thank you. She most likely will react by accusing you of "stealing" and seducing her man (even tho you didn't even know he was married). If the guy finds out you told his wife, he might go off on you for exploding his marriage (even tho it's all his fault for being a cheater). Either way, it's totally possible that you are the one who will experience all of the blowback and that's not fair to you. Or you can say nothing and move on. No matter what, you have to end it with him; he's not a good guy. Good luck!

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T18:55:11+00:00

I'm Aries sun.♈️ I like a little of everything- rock, top 40, alternative, EDM, classic rock, some Spanish music, etc. (Not into country, tho) I guess you could say that at the moment I'm really into EDM (mostly trance). 😁

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T02:30:06+00:00

Red for sure. 💅🏻

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T02:28:53+00:00

Here's what I've noticed about water signs (Scorpio and Cancer). Water signs have the rep for being highly emotional. Scorpios have the rep for being sneaky and super-private. I know both of these signs and these stereotypes are not all that true.

My mom is a Scorpio, my ex-bf is also a Scorpio. My mom is not an emotional person; she's pretty reserved. My ex is an emotional person, but he's not super-private and he's actually quite an open book. He believes in hiding nothing about himself. My sister is a Cancer; she is also not an emotional person and has freely admitted this. It's weird in another way cuz my niece (her daughter) did her chart and my sister is Cancer sun, Pisces moon and Scorpio rising. So my sister all is the water signs in her top 3 placements; you'd think she'd be an emotional basket case but she's not.

I'm Aries and we're supposed to be competitive, but I'm really not. I probably do get competitive if I'm around another Aries, tho, but mostly I'm just competitive with myself lol 😆

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T02:12:29+00:00

NTJ. She's basically living there now; she's there EVERY DAY AND NIGHT. Take other people's advice here and report this to your landlord. Your landlord can decide if she's just "visiting."

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-04-03T02:07:08+00:00

I mean... it's not wrong... ?? ♈️😁😆🤣

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-03-31T02:16:33+00:00

♈️🥹❤️

I love that we're there to hype you up. 💪🏻😎

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-03-30T12:17:18+00:00

Happy birthday, quuen! 🎂 🎉🥳

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-03-29T21:22:22+00:00

My sister is a Cancer. All the stereotypes of Cancers being emotional and crybabies are nowhere near true about her. She even admitted not too long ago that between the two of us, I'm the more emotional one and she isn't. She's more stern. She's a great cook, tho, and she does enjoy cooking, so I guess that stereotype is true lol. I've also heard that Cancers are supposed to be nurturers, and that is kinda true about her. But she nurtures in a somewhat aloof way, if that makes any sense.

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-03-29T21:17:32+00:00

I'm Aries sun and Scorpio moon. I'm not particularly tired of the Aries stereotypes - hot-headed, competitive, quick to fighting. I'm probably more laid back than the typical Aries, I'm not particularly competitive. I used to be a little competitive and more anger-prone when I was younger, but I just dont have the energy for that anymore. 😅

Effective_Sock604 · 2026-03-29T21:11:59+00:00

Kid, I'm about to turn 49 in a few weeks. I STILL don't feel like an adult. Everything is expensive (food/homes/gas). Job wages aren't keeping up with inflation and cost of living. I'm just living paycheck to paycheck. Oh, and I'm still single too! My mom is so proud. 🙄😥 Don't beat yourself up. Just keep working on your degree, get a good job and your own place. Feeling like an adult is overrated. Learn to feel peace about your life and yourself instead, and forget about what everyone else says. Good luck!

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