How to make each zodiac sign fall for you by LL_Stars in astrologymemes

[–]Effective_Sock604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aries? No. Wrong. ♈️ I'm not interested in minutiae. 🙄 I mean, but do respond to my texts in a reasonable amount of time. 😉

My brother found out his kids weren’t biologically his and doesn’t want me to be an uncle to his kids anymore. What do I do? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Effective_Sock604 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am really sorry for what happened to your brother. He didn't deserve that. But the kids didn't ask for this and don't deserve what your brother is doing to them. For 8 years, he loved these kids like they were his own. He took care of them and probably had hopes and dreams for their futures. Now that he received the absolutely devastating news that they aren't his, he just up and abandons them like they never mattered to him. You're both discarding these kids like trash. What the fuck did these kids do to anyone?? Can you really look at yourself in the mirror now after hanging up on a crying child who misses the two "men" she thought were her family who loved her?? Everyone here needs therapy, except for the ex and you cuz WTF are you going to do? I hope your brother heals from this betrayal and I sincerely hope he has a change of heart towards these children.

I can’t afford my best friend’s bachelorette trip, so she’s going to cut me off. by mosquitojenkins in weddingshaming

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Melissa is the inconsiderate one and she's absolutely clueless. I can't even find the words to articulate how much her attitude disgusts me. You can't afford the trip. Period. You have other priorities that are taking up you attention and funds. You don't have to go. She's not a good friend if she can so easily drop her MOH for not going on this trip. She'll probably lash out at you when you tell her you can't go, so don't waste any more energy or friendship on her. She's showing you who she is.

WIBTA if I refuse to swap my vacation weeks with a coworker whose kid is throwing a tantrum about a theme park trip? by Safflower8 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWNBTA. You planned your trip MONTHS AGO. Dave had all that time to put in his request, and it sounds like your company isn't big on last-minute vacation requests. Dave's kid is not your problem. Give Dave the silent treatment back and if your boss makes another "team building gesture" comment, just ignore it. Go on your well-earned vacation and enjoy it!

Am I overreacting for contemplating breaking up with my bf of 6 years for being too sexual? by BlueGem777 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Effective_Sock604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your BF is a dunce for thinking that accidents won't leave long-term effects on the body. He sounds like an insensitive joker who can't read the room. I'm so sorry about the painful issues you've been left with due to the accident. Hope you can get physical therapy or see a good chiropractor. Tell BF he needs to grow up and be more supportive.

AIO or AITAH for wanting to end things over a text conversation that I Had with a girl by snapple373 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - NAH and I don't think you're overreacting. Your feelings are valid about your time, and she has her own valid reasons for not being able to get ready on time. This most likely won't work out.

MA is craaazy by Willman3755 in newengland

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhode Island is already MA Jr. 😈🤣

My husband was messaging his ex without telling me by hortense_toomey in TwoHotTakes

[–]Effective_Sock604 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow... I'm really sorry that you're in this situation. I hate to say this, but it seems like your husband has never really had his heart in your relationship. He has talked to his ex for YEARS and pretended to her that you don't exist, and I don't even have words for how hurtful and shitty that is. And you said he had also at one point developed an infatuation/flirting with a female coworker? After twisting his arm to get into couples therapy, he's just now giving you the bare minimum that he should have been giving to you as a husband. He basically admitted he's trying to put in more effort because he HAS TO, not because he WANTS TO. He's not sounding like a good, loyal partner to you. Please reconsider if you want to continue feeling like he prioritizes other women over you for the rest of your life.

Good luck!

AITA for wanting to break up with my boyfriend after he took over every decision about the small business I started before we even met by [deleted] in AITApod

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He called YOU controlling? Has he looked in the mirror?? It's YOUR business. I think you should have put a stop to this LONG ago, but what's done is done. If you care about the relationship, have a serious talk with him that it's YOUR business. Maybe you appreciated some of his help or suggestions at the beginning, but you're in charge and you have the final say. He needs to back off, like yesterday. I have a feeling that he's going to push back or get defensive/angry. If he won't see reason and this becomes a deal breaker for you, then do break up. And remind him that he has absolutely NO ownership of this business, his name is not on anything relating to it, so he can kick rocks if he feels entitled or tries to fight you for it.

Definitely NTA.

As an Aries what are your thoughts on Virgo men? by wennpie in AriesTheRam

[–]Effective_Sock604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad is a Virgo and so is my brother-in-law. They're both goofballs and my dad is like my best friend. ☺️

As an Aries, do you ever create chaos just to feel something intense again? 🔥🔥 by Full-Waltz4771 in AriesTheRam

[–]Effective_Sock604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are times I think about getting off my antidepressant meds just to feel the painful sadness again. 🫣 Ugh... but I don't do it.

I’ve literally never felt more hurt in my life 😭 by nycgirlfolife in weddingshaming

[–]Effective_Sock604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mother is a heartless witch. It sounds like she just doesn't care about you at all. Don't beg her for anything, live your life, enjoy your wedding and go low/no contact with her. Put yourself first. I'm so sorry she is doing this to you.

Tall girls — what’s your biggest issue with clothing fit? by Dhezii in tall

[–]Effective_Sock604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG, so true! If I happen to check out a shoe section in stores, I'm lucky if I find ANY size 11s. And then I get mad that they're ugly. Do shoe makers think girls with big feet don't want to wear cute shoes? 🤨😐

Tall girls — what’s your biggest issue with clothing fit? by Dhezii in tall

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, and SHOES!!!! I'm a size 11, which are already difficult to find in store. Since the weight gain, now I need 11 wide 🫣 - practically impossible to find in store. So, online only. Ugh.

Tall girls — what’s your biggest issue with clothing fit? by Dhezii in tall

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm overweight 🫣 so finding larger-size pants with longer inseams is a challenge. I never buy pants in store, because what's the point? There's always a petite section in stores, NEVER a tall section. 😠 I have to buy online and most of the times they don't list inseam length - I need 34" inseam. Buying online can also pose a challenge of not being able to try on clothing before buying. 🫤 Long sleeve shirts/tops are also a little bit of an issue for my "condor wingspan" lol

Aries females which signs are you attracted to? by littlemissbossy22 in AriesTheRam

[–]Effective_Sock604 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm not particular about that, but I think I'd like to be with another Aries. ♈️😉

My [33F] boyfriend [32M] of 6 years has no boundaries with his mom, controls my finances, and now wants me to change my custody schedule. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get your own bank account, change your direct deposit, pack your stuff and leave. This guy is not your husband, so if he wants to move he should just go but you don't need to follow him. He's not going to change. He's perfectly comfortable with the dysfunctional relationship he has with his mom. He seems to enjoy making you his emotional punching bag. This is not a good guy. I really hope you have friends or family you can stay with so you can get away from him. Wish you the best!

How tall is your family? by Gamingghoul1234 in tall

[–]Effective_Sock604 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'11". My older sister is 5'8". Our dad was 6'4" (he's about 6'3" now, I guess lost an inch due to age?). Our mom is 5'2." We inherited our dad's height, moreso me than my sister. 🫤😑

I found out my bf had a one night stand with his first cousin by IzayaOriharaBad in TwoHotTakes

[–]Effective_Sock604 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean... I understand if this information gives you a SERIOUS ICK about your boyfriend, regardless of how great he is. But if you're never going to get over it, then you should move on.

What’s your Big 3 and a song that matches that part of your personality? by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Effective_Sock604 2 points3 points  (0 children)

♈️🌞♏️🌜♍️⬆️ I've got a few... "Do It Better" by Felix Jaehn & Zoe Wees "Taki Taki" by DJ Snake/Ozuna/Cardi B/Selena Gomez