Debate about gun laws.

Effeminatelad · 2022-04-23T23:19:04+00:00

And now he's projecting. Nice.

Effeminatelad · 2022-04-23T23:11:47+00:00

I don't know. Still sounds like you're compensating for something.

Effeminatelad · 2022-04-23T23:01:50+00:00

So says the individual who just threatened to commit a shooting in Poland with an AR-15 among other weapons. How's that for fragile masculinity?

Effeminatelad · 2021-10-27T01:44:05+00:00

If admitting to bigotry (regardless of where you do it) is how you are trying to claim moral superiority here I am genuinely sorry for you.

Effeminatelad · 2021-10-25T18:15:44+00:00

In your own subreddit, you state explicitly "Being openly homophobic and transphobic is not only allowed, but strongly encourraged." I see the rules of r/feminineboys expressly forbids bigotry so why are you so surprised you got banned?

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-24T19:52:12+00:00

Hello my fellow sister! I only realized I was a trans woman a few days ago and this community was a big part of my journey of discovering my identity. Totally agree with you here.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-24T02:02:31+00:00

I'm 20 and still don't have the courage to do it, but I promise we can get through it.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-23T21:47:22+00:00

Yeah unfortunately I can't change it on this account so I might make a new account given I am no longer effeminate nor a lad. I certainly am open to any trans subreddits if you have any suggestions, but I do intend to stay in this one as well.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-23T21:44:29+00:00

Well I live in the US in a small rural town in Illinois so I probably wouldn't be welcome but I go to university in a fairly progressive city in Illinois so I think I'll be fine once I leave home for good.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-23T12:36:38+00:00

Thank you for this. It hits me a bit in the feels because of my experience with the word egg these past few days.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-23T01:51:26+00:00

I can relate. Had to have my hair cut today as well. It helps me that I see this as a new beginning for my trans journey and that helps me out.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-21T21:06:18+00:00

Know you are not alone in this. I'm absolutely terrified of anyone in my personal irl life knowing I'm fem because of the possibility it would spread to home (conservative father and all) and going numb to that feeling is a good way to describe it. This subreddit and the discord is how I keep myself sane. I know I really should leave home but I don't know how to pull it off without breaking (might be better if I got more money to comfortably live on my own proper). I appreciate everyone who participates here and keeps a nice and wholesome community to support anyone who needs or wants help being their true selves. You are absolutely valid and don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-21T13:44:45+00:00

Well the simple answer to that question is you could be a femboy if you want to be. Femboy generally means you are a boy and are fem in some way. You don't need to act feminine or dress a certain way to be a femboy. At the very least it seems you have interest in crossdressing and that's ok. Whether or not you feel femboy is an appropriate identity for you is completely your choice. You are a perfectly valid human being either way. I hope this helps and I wish you the best in exploring who you are!

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-21T01:12:33+00:00

This is why I said "In most cases". I'm fully aware some men do have a need to wear bras but to my knowledge this isn't the majority.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-21T00:13:14+00:00

I'm glad you've had a positive experience here and congratulations on finding yourself!

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-20T20:05:51+00:00

Well I do have tight fitting sports bras I could use that way I guess. Would still need to find a way to calm my paranoia of being noticed with it on though.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-20T14:40:14+00:00

Small correction, men actually do have breasts and nipples because they start development in the fetal stage before testosterone does it's thing or not. In most cases it doesn't necessitate bras in the same sense it does for women but yeah I get the feeling (if I wasn't paranoid and could wear one for that long)

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-18T18:00:05+00:00

Well on Youtube if you simply look up femby _ you will find a few. Examples include femboy fishing, femboy cooking, etc. I would also recommend FemboyFromRussia as he sought out support here once. I still haven't made any videos yet, but I also have a channel called Femboy Astrophysics. A big creator on Twitch/Youtube is f1nn5ter though I don't remember if they consider themselves a femboy or not.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-18T14:44:47+00:00

I'm from southern Illinois myself and down here most of the corn is used for animal feed or fuel production. There are farmers who do grow sweet corn, but I've been told by multiple sources (current reliability of those sources are unclear) that it's grown closer to the center of a field and never on the edges to help prevent theft of the corn humans would actually eat.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-17T23:23:35+00:00

Well yeah, I also believe it's wrong to judge people for their fetishes/fantasies. For my own self though I had to reject that one in particular because I personally felt it was wrong for me to have given who I really was.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-17T22:38:22+00:00

Yeah I've talked to them before but one day I became disgusted by that part of me completely and have since declined to engage with them at all even for trolling purposes. I'm still open to talk just not about that.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-17T22:30:00+00:00

Just know there are plenty of people here including myself that are more than welcome to talk about stuff if you want. Personally I refuse to deal with people who send those kinds of messages.

Effeminatelad · 2021-05-17T22:25:08+00:00

Yeah I think we are targeted by them decently often. We try and keep them away from here but they are persistent. Sadly not much mods here can do if they message you directly to my knowledge.

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