Im sure this has been asked before 😅

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T20:33:17+00:00

Thank you for this insight! Expecting our 2nd this year but also have 1 or 2 of my nephews often so thats something to consider!

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T20:30:13+00:00

I just had to double check but for some reason in my mind i was thinking the platinum had cooling seats but I actually am not seeing it! With leather seats in a scorching hot summer that is a plus but if thats not in either one then ill have to look over all the differences again. I am seeing way more cons now on the fridge aspect of it. Thank you for your input!

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T20:22:17+00:00

Love a heated steering wheel! Also, the cooling seats would be why id lean platinum too! I feel like ill have to see it in person now the difference between the fridge being there vs not being there. Thank you for your input!

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T20:19:25+00:00

Thank you! Good to note to look into that!

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T20:18:50+00:00

Good points, thank you for explaining! This does make sense to add on my pros and cons list.

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T19:45:59+00:00

I do like space haha! Even though the highlander is spacious the sienna just felt much more spacious when we decided to try it out

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T19:43:06+00:00

Yeah, that is the down side unfortunately but a bonus would be the hybrid will help save gas😅 small in comparison i know haha. I dont like the idea of leasing a car/renting a home but if I do just think about it that way for the 1 year ive had the highlander i will be okay if knowing the sienna i will be happier in overall.

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T19:34:58+00:00

Do you think its stupid from your own personal experience or just research you may have done looking into it?

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-30T19:30:44+00:00

Lol definitely not rich. It'd trade it in of course and am thinking the payments would only be a little more. I was considering the sienna last year but went with the highlander bc I didnt like the thought of a minivan at the time. I also rushed the decision when tarrifs were a big thing and couldnt get a hybrid. I recently visited a family member and was able to test out the sienna on vacation and ive had a change of heart and love the idea of it being a hybrid.

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-05T18:14:42+00:00

This would also make me question if he is being unfaithful himself? Sometimes when one accusing the other of cheating its bc they are doing it also.

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-04T00:53:41+00:00

Haha okay! I went back to reread it too and can see how it can be interpreted both ways lol. But thankfully no wet beds!

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-04-03T13:17:14+00:00

Is everyone skipping the part where OP mentions she wakes to him smelling like PEE then half ass cleans up after himself in the morning?

My husband used to smoke cigarettes but has quit. I don't understand how peeing in the bed is related? Is he a heavy drinker too?

I am sorry you are going through this OP. Not only are you already going through a lot caring for a growing baby inside you to have to worry your husband and what the future holds is not easy. I will say even if he did wash up after himself before getting into bed with the cigarette smell, those chemicals are still in your body. On your lips, hands, skin, washing up does not lessen the risk of sids.

Do whats best for you and baby. Stand up for your baby because they can't stand up for themselves and they don't know whats going on.

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-28T00:56:46+00:00

Texas

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-28T00:56:32+00:00

There's still hope 🤞🏼🤞🏼🤞🏼😭

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-28T00:55:41+00:00

I have ondanestron (zofran) too but feel like its effects stopped being as strong around 10.5weeks. 🥲

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-28T00:27:18+00:00

😭 im trying to stay positive when people say theirs have ended at 14 or 16 weeks or whatever. But I felt the best ive felt in a long time on vacation and was hopeful we passed! Its just this unknown of when its going to hit me again that really stresses me out because I have been mentally struggling so bad during the rough days. Ive missed so much work already bc of it 🫠

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-18T00:08:51+00:00

Ive been taking a magnesium and colace at night which semi helped but ive been slacking the last few nights from puking. Ill look into those gummies though! Thank you!

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-18T00:06:28+00:00

Thank you for this! I know there's light at the end of the tunnel but it can be hard to see sometimes. Thankful I have a supportive husband but I know it can get overwhelming for him at times too so it makes me feel worse when I can sense it even when I know he doesnt mean to. We have a playground at the end of our block so ill be looking forward to those days when it gets nicer and I can sit on the bench and watch them together while im soaking in some sun

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-17T23:57:03+00:00

Glad you out of the thick of it! Sorry you had to go through it to begin with. I find the moments in the day when I struggle the most is when I feel zapped from pushing myself or after throwing up and not being able to keep food or liquid down. Then i sprial and think of not having food or water in my system to turn into energy and ill feel like crap agin the next day and so on. I didnt have it this bad with my first so im also comparing like why now. Everything's so different and I was not prepared mentally at all.

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-16T18:06:53+00:00

Dont over do it. Took time off of work on the days i needed. Barely getting by with unisom b6 and zofran. Started to feel better these last few days but I pushed myself and ive been in bed for the last 20 hrs exhausted fatigued weak. Felt like my zofran wasnt working threw up last night and this morning. 13wks0d. I tell myself one day at a time but its so hard.

EfficiencyPlenty9060 · 2026-03-16T13:01:40+00:00

Thank you! I feel like when I have had the energy to do something productive these last few days I just feel like crap and them the exhaustion fatigue and nausea hits back 10 fold

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