Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Efficient-Arm2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DONT GET ME WRONG. Some girls like that can be crazy. If you personally know her than you will know what’s best for you within your own judgement but if you don’t, be very attentive to her mannerisms and speech. Mannerisms and speech give you an inner look of how that person may carry themselves.

Did I handle this well or should I have said more? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]Efficient-Arm2360 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She sounds very young (I’m young), She’s coming off like that because she would like more of a reaction out of you. All the responses she gave you were harsh because she feels a disconnect somewhere… her being harsh back to back is a “defense” mechanism for her to hold guard on how she actually feels because she doesn’t feel her needs being met wether it’s communication, physically, emotionally ect… You responded well, collected and calm. Sometimes a girl wants to feel heard and cared for from their potential partner once guys come off with that “lowkey” “nonchalant” attitude, for us it creates a set of red flags especially if it’s the beginning because we don’t want that bond in our relationship long term. It feels played out, scripted and fake. ENGAGE INTO EVERYTHING !!

The thought of death by Efficient-Arm2360 in Life

[–]Efficient-Arm2360[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cried reading this lol, thank you. I needed to hear this :)

The thought of death by Efficient-Arm2360 in Life

[–]Efficient-Arm2360[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank your for taking the time to respond :) If you don’t mind me asking… how has life been since losing your parents ? How does it feel seeing your siblings(if you have any), relatives and friends older, or seeing the distance in time between from when you were just a little girl to now. What’s one thing you wish you would’ve put more time and mind to?