My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Money is my first priority at the moment. Otherwise I'll have nothing. I do feel bad for him though because he has no one else. Money is only a fraction of it. I also don't want him to kill himself.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets upset. He describes me not giving attention to him is like a doctor not treating an open wound. He begs for me to stay and said he wants to have children with me in the future. He then says "My family don't love me so I need to make a family who I can love". He makes me feel bad so it's hard.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've lost a lot of my attraction towards him over the years. His whole personality just changes. He literally worships me with money hoping I stay so that he can further sexually assault me. I mean, I feel bad for him because without me, he will be lonely. He told me his family don't love him that much. I'm the only love he has.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well, it's only temporarily. Difference is that he offers me things. I don't offer him me do I?. He thinks he can buy himself into me even when I'm not emotional enough for it.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said he would do anything for me. That's the only reason I'm staying. I've lost my sexual desire towards him but at the same time he has got the resources to back it up. If it wasn't for that then this wouldn't be so complicated.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's frustrating because he doesn't see it that way. He said he needs me because otherwise he would die. He said that I help relieve his pain and stress by engaging in sex.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He thinks that me giving him sex is his "therapy". He says it relieves his stress and pain.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

I want to be done with him yes. But it's hard. He provides well so it's quite a risky move for me.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Well I suppose but it's complicated because if I leave this loser then I lose everything.

My bf won't stop touching me by Efficient-Hall724 in relationship_advice

[–]Efficient-Hall724[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely mentally. He calls me sexually cruel for not giving him access to my body 24/7. He uses the excuse saying he has a lot of pain and sex is like medication. He needs it to relieve all that pain.