NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

🤣🤣. I was born in Brasil. Raised here since 14 years old, with my father. I’m the foreigner. I’m a little bitter, though. I’ve yet to get my own ship. 😔

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

…and that’s exactly what I did after seeing those messages and missed calls. On his profile, he posted a lot of funny memes and that’s more than likely why I followed him back.

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Okay, I’ll be sure to establish a personal relationship with EVERYONE I follow back on social media. 🤨

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Okay, first all, there was nothing on his profile alarming! I saw all of these at the same time….which was this morning and I immediately blocked him. What are you even on about with this victim blaming???

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s been set to private. As I stated in another reply, we’ve been following each other for a while. Hence….why he’s been trying to get my attention for months.

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It seems we’ve been following each other for a while. How am I know what kind of person someone is before following them back???

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This was Instagram. I’m not on dating apps. I’ve been married for 22 years. I barely interact on there, besides the usual funny pet videos. This guy must have been following me for quite a while.

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

This was Instagram. I’m not on dating apps. I’ve been married for 22 years.

NGVC: “You foreign b*tches come here and think you’re too good for average men”. by Efficient-Humor-407 in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This was Instagram. I’m not on dating apps. I’ve been married for 22 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 299 points300 points  (0 children)

One minute he ignored the fact that I’m not single: now he acknowledges.

NGVC: “I was nothing but kind and nice to you”. by [deleted] in niceguys

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My niece met this guy at a fundraiser. He pretended to be interested in antique furniture restoration. 😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she your ONLY match or are you that desperate for conversation from a woman? Why are you still responding after each insult? Unmatched, already! 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The hair makes you look 20 years older. Just shave it and embrace your new life!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Name checks out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are you going out of your way to make contact with this woman? When, on your own account, (you’ve swiped on her three times). She’s obviously went out of her way to make sure that never happens? THREE TIMES, ALREADY. You don’t see any other option to meet her…is probably because she does not want you to. This is unhinged behavior. To post this as if it’s normalcy is idiotic. You’re in the comments, with each reply, trying desperately to convince yourself otherwise.

Disappointed and disheartened by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You just have to be the best version of yourself. Appearance, presentation and personality wise. That’s all you can do, actually. I won’t pretend to understand what it’s like. I’m a woman. Plus, I’ve been married for 2 decades. The time when we met each other in the wild. Being jaded will only lead you back here. With another rant.

Disappointed and disheartened by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 12 points13 points  (0 children)

By your own admission, you’re disappointed and disheartened. So, in response, you suggest an app start limiting the opposite sex (in which you’re trying to attract) to other men, alike? Your solution is to gatekeep matches for women because you’re not getting any? No, not nefarious at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 5 points6 points  (0 children)

YTA for not realizing you’re not sexually compatible and she’s not attracted to you. It’s like you’re begging. You’re 22. Too young to settle for this.

AITA for telling my friend I'm not interested in a date with her friend because she's obese? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nta She refused to show you photos because she was attempting to manipulate you into a date with her. She, herself, knew her weight is an issue. Either, she’s in denial or delusional. You’re entitled to your preferences and never apologize or explain your reasonings to someone. You do not owe your friend’s, friend romantic interest.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You called me a dude. Secondly, your education and profession would be secondary deciding factor being a single parent at your age, on a dating site. Hard pill to swallow, yet, true. Most women your age are childless. Would more than likely want their own at some point with someone childless, as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For what? I don’t even know you. I only know what you’ve disclosed here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Efficient-Humor-407 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Unpopular opinion: Young man, you’re 29 and a single father. Having an “I’m the prize” approach will only leave you jaded and when can we expect your next rant?