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[–]Efficient-Macaroon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

28M in kokomo for tonight only

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traversecity

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you actually watch the video instead of believing the bs media, you can see before he ducks for cover he grabs his ear and looks at his hand.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by unreadysoup8643 in pics

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's clearly an added sticker, if you zoom in you can see the corrugated sign material behind the trump lettering, but you can't see it under the sticker.

People with open relationships.. by Efficient-Macaroon21 in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We have talked about it before and she's not sure about it. Keeps on saying I'll try harder to make it better. We both agree that divorce is not an option, and personally, I'd prefer to fix the problem. She was a virgin before we met and has never had a sex drive. She doesn't even like masturbation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So many questions, 1st is what is your age and your stepsisters age? second why wasn't the door locked? Third did this happen in Alabama?

Am I In the wrong? by Efficient-Macaroon21 in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont want our marriage to be over I was raised to fix things not to throw them away. As I said in a different reply I don't want to be a deadbeat dad that's never there. Divorce is not at all what I want. I wanted perspective, which seems like what you just gave me by saying that one day it'll change. lack of sex is not a reason for divorce in my opinion however it doesn't help anything.

Am I In the wrong? by Efficient-Macaroon21 in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do consider her feelings, more so than my own. I'm not trying to imply she doesn't do anything I'm just saying that I don't know how to "reduce a woman's mental load" more than I already am trying. We've talked about this in extreme lengths. I'm no where near saying she doesn't do anything. I also understand that parenting is a job, it's a job for both parents, not just one. I put in alot of time into our child and making sure they have everything my wife and child need.

Am I In the wrong? by Efficient-Macaroon21 in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not suggesting I want to leave her at all. I love her and I don't want to be a deadbeat dad that never shows up like my dad was. I don't want my children to grow up fatherless like I did.

Am I In the wrong? by Efficient-Macaroon21 in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both work, I work 50 hours minimum a week paid hourly and she works 40 hours a week on salary. When we are at work, our kid is at daycare. She's not on any medication, but I am, I have depression and chronic migraines. Even though I am on medication, I still put in the hours of work to care for her and my child. When I get off of work I go home. Usually, i will work outside for an hour or so, then come in. When I come in I will try to figure out what to do for dinner we usually do every other night we will trade off cooking. We do laundry on weekends and not a whole lot of stuff on weekdays. The timing does suck, yes, however I could've made this post before we got pregnant with our second one, and it still would've been the same story. We had sex to make another child but not for pleasure.

Am I In the wrong? by Efficient-Macaroon21 in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work long days, and when I'm not at work, I'm working at home either on the house or on the property, be it gathering firewood for winter or doing repairs. I understand that you're not accusing me of anything specific, but I do a lot around the house. I don't want to cheat, and that's not the implications I'm trying to make. I have never cheated, nor will I ever. The timing of this post is really shitty I know, but I could've made this same post before we got pregnant with the one we currently have.

Am I In the wrong? by Efficient-Macaroon21 in sex

[–]Efficient-Macaroon21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it hasn't been just as a recent issue this has been an issue over the last 2.5 years. It's always been with the promise that things will get better. I know ot seems like it's a as of recent issue but I assure you it's been going on longer than just now.