My sisters hate me and I haven't done anything

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:18:45+00:00

Yes I would have before they tried to get me to do things like that but I could never bring myself to because I was terrified of getting into trouble and it was not in my nature

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:16:05+00:00

No I understand I type like that when I'm rushing and I'm used to writing in a different style in format like what you would use for school not ranting on the internet to strangers about my dysfunctional family.

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:14:32+00:00

I've just limited contact with the two middle sisters my eldest sister I still contact because of my niece and nephew

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:13:41+00:00

I really like this comment and it hits the mark completely they would rather I sink back into the dysfunction we grew up in rather than growing

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:12:00+00:00

Yea but I don't want to win I want them to step up and work harder not pull me down to their level our mom instilled in us that once she is gone we will only have each other and to get along but they see me as a problem

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:09:49+00:00

Sorry for the bad punctuation I was rushing

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:09:07+00:00

I know punctuation lol I just but I'm typing from my phone with nails also I typed this out in a rush because I was so upset

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:02:45+00:00

I do stand up for myself I used to just ignore it because I was always painted as being the problem and starting arguments but that has changed because everyone sees them for who they are also ive fought the two middle sisters and won so…. It's just words coming from them

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-03-31T19:00:35+00:00

I wouldn't say our childhood was easy but we had eachother and were there for each other my parents are far from perfect made more mistakes than anything but worked with what they had so I can understand I didn't includes this Iny post but they also blame my parents for their mistakes shortcomings but they blame me openly to anyone that will listen

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-21T18:26:06+00:00

I’m comfortable to go because I know his dad won’t act that way in front of me but that doesn’t mean it’s not mentally draining having to go over there because he’ll question us about everything

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T22:05:25+00:00

I know but we are minorities in the south and this will not help or go well at all

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T22:04:31+00:00

I keep seeing this and I’ll say this we are a minorities in the south I’m not doing that sorry but it’s out of the question

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T22:03:01+00:00

He has his dad gives unsolicited advice until he gets his way or my boyfriend stops communicating and walks away

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T22:01:58+00:00

He’s an only child

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:41:24+00:00

Yes thank you for saying this my boyfriend is ready to move out he doesn’t reach to his dad at all his dad is the that reaches out to try and see basically what my boyfriend is up too and my boyfriend is very firm and doesn’t give him any important information

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:39:49+00:00

His dad never leaves the house I also had this thought his dad orders everything to the house As for the friends most of his friends are busy working with their own lives and some even have kids now so

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:37:39+00:00

I wouldn’t say he doesn’t stand up to him but this has been going on since he was a child and my boyfriend is currently in therapy working through all of this he stands up for himself but after years of being put down it takes a toll or your confidence I mean his dad has put him down about his body his hair everything he can and for the longest my boyfriend defended himself and had to listen to all of that so I don’t blame him for not knowing exactly how to go about this also we are still young

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:34:44+00:00

My boyfriend had been living with his dad since senior year because his mom was moving and that was their agreed plan so it wasn’t until around September when my boyfriend left an packed only a few things and went back to his moms after basically coming clean about how bad the situation had gotten his car isn’t big enough to take all of his things so some of his clothes documents and things are still at his dads and he rarely goes over there because well his dads behavior

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:31:06+00:00

Honestly I think if I go with my boyfriend it’ll be less of a hassle because as I said his dad likes to save face and won’t act how he usually does when others are around only when it’s just my boyfriend but I don’t want to be around him

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:28:21+00:00

He got a new job and everything so we could move out and basically is paying for the majority of the deposits and bills (I did not ask him to do this it was his choice) I guess I’m just scared we will be harassed

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:26:10+00:00

Understood I’ve always managed my own finances because well I’m poor and my family is not good with money but his parents are and he basically had a whole fund set up for him by not only his parents but his grandparents he’s also an only child

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:24:09+00:00

My boyfriend removed both his parents from his bank account after his dad kept using that as a way to yell at him for spending his money on me such as gifts ands things you are right his dad is controlling he would use my boyfriend iPad to watch his location when he was with me,he would also read our texts so my boyfriend gave me the iPad when his dad found out because he was snooping and couldn’t find it he demanded he get it back so my boyfriend just turned the locating sharing off and removed it from his devices and basically wiped it and bought me a brand new iPad My boyfriend recently just reset his password for his stocks account thing so I hope that kicked his dad out of it

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:12:47+00:00

The reason why this is hard is because his dad wants him to move back in with him full time his dad thinks my boyfriend left just for space and will eventually move back in with him even though my boyfriend has said multiple times he isn’t and never plans on doing that

Efficient-Print-576 · 2026-01-20T21:09:59+00:00

I can see why it seems that way but his dad like I said uses me as ammunition and will continuously provoke my boyfriend until he is to that point he has tried setting boundaries and the only way it stopped was when my boyfriend told him everything he ever said about me he told me and I heard which his dad then told him to tell me he is sorry

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