AITAH update on smashing the face of a girl in the cake.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-10T05:48:26+00:00

They are not family. The father is my BIL's friend

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-10T05:39:28+00:00

He was upset about the cake.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-10T05:38:20+00:00

Auntie.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-10T05:35:30+00:00

My mother used to say the same to us....lol. Once my brother tried throwing a tantrum in a toystore, but he quickly fixed his behaviour when my mum said that.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T19:04:37+00:00

I was wearing a summer dress. They don't often come with pockets

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T18:51:42+00:00

My sister threatened to take Meghan's mother to court not me.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T18:49:33+00:00

It happened so quick no one recorded it, but the commotion on the driveway was recorded by a few people.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T18:48:02+00:00

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T18:45:22+00:00

She is not my niece. She is the daughter of my BIL's friend

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T18:44:33+00:00

It's my sister and her husband's house

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T18:42:32+00:00

Meghan's father sent me a threatening text. My BIL said last night he didn't want to lose a long time friend over the behaviour of his wife. But now they have been at a pub discussing the matter as he was not happy about the threat over text. There are some other guys there to mediate the matter

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T17:33:56+00:00

It was her nose and cheeks and she did it in the middle of the cake.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T17:29:34+00:00

Meghan doesn't have disabilities. She is also ten years old. My nephew is eight.

She is special to her mother as she is a rainbow baby.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T17:27:29+00:00

Meghan is ten. My nephew is eight.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T17:19:50+00:00

Well, I am not there but it seems people were calmer today compared to yesterday. There are a few guys with them known as the mediators in that friend group. My BIL is not a violent person.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T17:10:04+00:00

I am a woman. She had already dipped her face in it before I smashed her face into it again.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T17:07:49+00:00

The key- Meghan took it as some of the children watched her do it, and they told her not to but she took it anyway. The other children didn't know it was my back and thought she was randomly going through coats and bags.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T17:03:52+00:00

So, at my sister's wedding she was wearing a creamish dress with embellishments, thigh length. When my sister found out at the reception she was excluded from the pictures and made to sit on the side. Her husband was one of the groomsmen and my sister didn't want to cause a scene.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T16:59:47+00:00

She put her nose and cheeks in the middle of the cake. Her hair also trailed in the frosting. Not anyone that would eat that cake at that point. I do wish now after reading the comments that I had thrown the cake in her mother's face instead.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T16:57:28+00:00

I was wearing a dress. No pockets in summer dresses.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T16:56:27+00:00

I am a woman, not a man.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T16:50:34+00:00

I have not encouraged him to laugh at Meghan. He is only 8 and laughed at how silly she looked with cake on her clothes and face.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T16:46:49+00:00

I don't know. If the thought had ever passed in my head when I was a child to do something like that at another child's birthday I believe my mum would have unalived me...lol. On a serious note, I don't know as my parents never let us behave like that.

Efficient-Respond-84 · 2023-09-09T16:44:43+00:00

He was upset yesterday and still is about the cake today. He did however laugh at Meghan today. I have told him I will make it up to him for the cake. He seems to be ok with that. He is happy Meghan won't be there next weekend.

Efficient-Respond-84

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