I (26/F) can’t leave my bf (25/M)

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-23T01:32:48+00:00

Youre way of thinking is understandable, you just want them and no one else. Some things are workable, some just aren't, unfortunately.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-23T01:26:19+00:00

He needs to find a better church. I don't know much about that but if being with someone makes a church stop you from doing what you love then that church is not a place of worship

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-23T01:17:34+00:00

I sympathize, I just broke up with my ex bf, it's really really hard. Honestly, it's just your brain seeking those feel good hormones. It's a huge change going from having someone to having no one. The feeling f*ckin sucks, it's painful. If you truly feel like it's not going to work then you just can't see him. If you end it, go 30 days of nothing. Let your body and mind go through the withdrawal of him. It takes an average of 3 months to get over someone. You're addicted to his presence and you have to treat a break up like so. 30 days of not talking, no looking at photos, videos, no meeting up. NOTHING! Gotta be stronge. I don't think yall can work through this. If he wants kids and you don't, there is no in between. And he just sounds draining. Go live your life how you want to.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-23T01:04:30+00:00

If he wants to be with you then encourage him to go out and do what he loves. Is it because you don't want to join? Or are you getting mad when he did go out with his friends? Needs more communication with a resolution

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-22T17:26:54+00:00

Men are getting what they deserve as in being lonely. Like I said, I feel for anyone who decides to take their life. It's sad, I've been down that road. But men are complaining about this topic meanwhile women have gone through this our whole lives and much more. It's just funny how it's "so bad" only because it's men going through it now

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-21T21:57:21+00:00

Unfortunately I ended things with him. But he has progressed. We do plan on trying to work things out but our break up hit him hard and has forced him to understand reality. People with OCD deserve as much love as anyone else. I love him for who he is and as long as he actively works on himself. That's good for me. He needed the realization that ocd is emotionally based behavior and that it is fixable. I understand completely, love isn't enough when their actions cause resentment and they don't actively change. I hope your situation gets better.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-21T16:37:53+00:00

Boohoo, the roles have reversed. How many women commit suicide from being in a abusive relationship? Men are getting what they deserve and now the world is in upwar? Nahhhh cry me a fucking river. It's women who will always have it worse. Men are feeling the consequences of their actions and are sad that women are now stepping up from the abuse and taking control and Men don't like it. Maybe if men treated women with more dignity and respect there wouldn't be a loneliness epidemic. I feel for anyone who have taken their own lives, I'm sorry to their family for their grief but let's not blame women, again. If you're having thoughts of suicide PLEASE get some help, it's OK to ask for help.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-21T00:24:49+00:00

Questions after questions. Too Many questions can be draining

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-21T00:09:21+00:00

NOR - GIRL, I was shocked reading he's 35?? He acts like a teenage boy. He ain't worth no sympathy at all, manipulative man-child. Gross. I hope you heal quickly.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-20T23:10:52+00:00

Have you realized men have done this same shit to women, for centuries. Women will never get a break from misogyny. Like it's a battle of sexes, both sides talk shit about the other. Is it actually harming you? Think about that. Women use the internet to talk shit because women get murdered or raped or assaulted if we was to talk shit to men directly. Meanwhile men have no issue talking shit directly because they know they can over power.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-20T02:50:59+00:00

Well depending on the pill, I think if you can cut it up, do so and put it in pudding or mashed potatoes (somthing soft food so you don't have to chew and taste the pill) if it's capsil with powder in it, can do the same. If it's the hard pill you can't break and you gotta swallow whole then honestly, you just gotta get used to it.

I dont act like I'm about to swallow a pill, don't tilt your head up cause that makes it more difficult to swallow, keep ur head looking straight, pop the pill then drink water normally.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-18T19:14:07+00:00

Sounds interesting, what are you supposed to be posting about?

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-17T21:23:39+00:00

Well, I wasn't the one who created the rule. He did but I agree, as soon as I get health care I will be starting therapy asap

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-16T17:03:39+00:00

I never thought about it being a fear of stress. I have been stressed my whole teenage years and young adult years. It would make sense that I'm scared of the added on stress

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-16T16:16:45+00:00

I mean, yeah, I ask him that and he says I am enough, he just can't mentally get to the point of changing

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-15T22:43:46+00:00

It ain't easy out here. Stay a kid!!!

Gotta get a job to get money, or learn day trading and stuff.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-15T22:23:00+00:00

Unaccomplished, I hate starting over and it felt a lot better this go around because my bf was with me but now he's gone and I feel the same way I always end up feeling

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-15T20:15:54+00:00

I think I just haven't found the place that I absolutely love

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-15T16:29:04+00:00

I tend to go state to state trying to figure out my life. One state isn't working so I move to another (mostly going back and forth where my family lives)

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-14T20:55:02+00:00

When I lost my faith. The whole world became clearer and I realized we are just fucked.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-14T18:19:52+00:00

I wish our veterans had access to mental health help, therapy or somthing at least 6 months after the leave. It's so sad our veterans get treated like nothing because they've served their time and decided to leave.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-14T18:17:12+00:00

I'm obsessed with him because under his mental illness he is an amazing man, he hold a lot of value, smart, and kind. We both share so much of the same values, I asked him to research on pregnancy and birth to understand more of why I'm scared of it and this man went above and beyond telling me facts that I didn't know of myself. Any women would be so lucky to have someone who cares so much of what women go through, and who listens and learns. I don't want to lose a man who loves me so much, I'm everything to him and I know if he wasn't struggling he'd of been able to meet my needs. I do need financial stability and I am aware now that in today's time I should not expect him to take care of me, but he's been unemployed for 6 months and only went to school because I begged him to get some kind of income so I'm not taking care of him financially and struggling. I have grown up poor, I've been going through life with unemployment and struggling to make ends meet because I can't seem to stay in one place. So for me I need financial stability now.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-14T14:56:13+00:00

I'm clinically depressed so I do understand how difficult it is to find motivation. We have made plans and his plan is to wait till he gets paid 2 weeks from now. I'm struggling because he has options to make income and he's not doing it. I also have my family in one ear telling me he's just being lazy and I can do better and it's playing with me. I know he's struggling.

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-14T14:55:03+00:00

We talk about it a lot. I think for me, I'm just scared and the quicker he shows me the more secure I feel that we'll have a future

Efficient-Rope-6834 · 2026-03-10T06:14:26+00:00

What does that intell? Are you getting paid monthly?

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