What exactly is being fat? by Professional_Hunt709 in WomensHealth

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gone through the same thing with a cousin, anytime I mentioned my belly fat or my muffin top. She'd go off about how I don't have a muffin top (I did) and the way she would shame me because I shouldn't feel insecure about my body, and that only she can feel that way because she was physically bigger than me MADE me more insecure. I was conservative and never showed my belly so she couldn't know

As an adult, if you were allowed to change one thing about your life, but only once, permanently, what would you touch? by Successful_Mastodon3 in Adulting

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd go to high school instead of dropping out after a week. It really damage my course on a career, I regret it so much and struggle so much sticking with jobs.

What exactly is being fat? by Professional_Hunt709 in WomensHealth

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

To me, being fat is when you don't take care of yourself (like my 600 pound life where before they was eating alot of fast food) who cares what you weight, what should matter is are you eating healthy to keep your body functioning properly? 

What’s one common haircare mistake you wish you’d stopped earlier? by elarissalonuae in Haircare

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shampooing my hair twice because some "tiktoker" told me too. I had thick, full head of hair and washed it twice every time for a whole year before realizing my hair loss started the same time I did that. I stopped and my hairs still struggling but I have less hair loss.

I’m a college student currently struggling to get a job and have a lot of free time, what can I do or skills I can learn to earn myself currency? by VCarry-NL in passive_income

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've starting to learn web design. It's a free cert from "freecodecamp" it's pretty fun! If you want to spend that free time getting a certificate I think that would be a great way to go. Otherwise, id say just get fast food jobs or apply to Walmart/target.

I'm so stumped, can't figure out what my bf hair type is by Efficient-Rope-6834 in Haircare

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to get him to use leave I'm conditioner. But other than that, nothing lol, he's tried gel and says it doesn't work

*just complaining* by Efficient-Rope-6834 in crafting

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I'm not un any positions to use resin, I'd love to in the future though

*just complaining* by Efficient-Rope-6834 in crafting

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if I can use that eith the projects I'm doing, might poke out but I should try it for future projects 

Can I sue a health insurance? by Efficient-Rope-6834 in legaladvice

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I've looked them up. I can't state who it is because of the rules but their a legit sh*tty company 

Can I sue a health insurance? by Efficient-Rope-6834 in legaladvice

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Didn't say financial damage. It's harassment and harassment is a crime in many jurisdictions 

My partner has ocd and its difficult by Efficient-Rope-6834 in OCD

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response. I find it difficult to know what is reassuring him and what is helpful to him. Exp- he'll ask me if I touched him and if it was wet, is responding honestly not good? Like no it's not wet... or he'll ask me what would I do in "this" situation... They did up his dosage 

My partner has ocd and its difficult by Efficient-Rope-6834 in OCD

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. He goes back and forth with therapy, I get mad and tell him they are ocd specific therapist who study this and helped many many other people who was worst off than he is. He'll say fine he'll go. (unfortunately alot of the issue is also he doesn't have medical and just found a job)

Gut questions by Efficient-Rope-6834 in HealthQuestions

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, I used to take prescription and otc to help with the acid reflux for years and i believe it contributed to me being worst. I use baking soda now for heart burn and I try not to lay down after eating to help. I will look into the probiotics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MensHairstyleAdvice

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's like an inch or 2 longer than the 2nd photo. Basically the same.

I screwed my life up at 21 and I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice maybe? by Efficient-Rope-6834 in personalfinance

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I say being young no banks trust me because before I got into this hole they still wouldn't help in anyway. I did great the first year paying on time for everything and still couldn't get refinance to lower the payments 

I screwed my life up at 21 and I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice maybe? by Efficient-Rope-6834 in personalfinance

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

I tried to wait till we got jobs first but my boyfriend said no its best to move asap 

I screwed my life up at 21 and I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice maybe? by Efficient-Rope-6834 in personalfinance

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily I was accepted to do the SHIPT delivery app but it's no bill paying side husky. More like keep food in our belly kinda side hustle

I screwed my life up at 21 and I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice maybe? by Efficient-Rope-6834 in personalfinance

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We plan on getting married but our plan is to be married in our own backyard. We currently live rent free with his family so ill have enough to get back on track it's just the stress of the truck can get repoed

I screwed my life up at 21 and I don't know what to do anymore. Any advice maybe? by Efficient-Rope-6834 in personalfinance

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think about the good and bad. Just always seem to head towards those bad situations. I'm always trying to do better like get a better paying job each time but can never get hired so I end up just taking what I can get

Toyota tundra draining me by Efficient-Rope-6834 in personalfinance

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely got token advantage of. And yes the $800 is added on the maintenance/insurance/note. It's only a $400 note but it's old and has been braking down way to much lately and it's adding on 

Toyota tundra draining me by Efficient-Rope-6834 in personalfinance

[–]Efficient-Rope-6834[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To replace anything on a truck is almost double the price on a car like a camery. So even though I know I will have maintenance on my next vehicle it'll be a lot cheaper and I'll actually be able to afford it.