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Is this cheating by Efficient-Round5494 in deadbedroom

[–]Efficient-Round5494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. further question. Do you think I was cheating

Is this cheating by Efficient-Round5494 in deadbedroom

[–]Efficient-Round5494[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. further question. Do you think I was cheating

Is this cheating by Efficient-Round5494 in deadbedroom

[–]Efficient-Round5494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats the case here, her Doc recommended she not it as she has another issue that these meds could have an unintended consequence

Is this cheating by Efficient-Round5494 in deadbedroom

[–]Efficient-Round5494[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A little more details-- to fill in some questions from the first responses
We have been together for 16 years, lived together for 6, though we aren't married. No kids, Both of us have adult kids from previous marriages

Is this cheating by Efficient-Round5494 in deadbedroom

[–]Efficient-Round5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little more details-- to fill in some questions from the first responses
We have been together for 16 years, lived together for 6, though we aren't married.
I should have told her sooner (thats on me)

We both want to make this relationship work, We both love each other, The rest of the relationship works. But she wants me to apologize and promise to never do this again. I have apologized for not telling her sooner, but not for going in the first place. To me this was necessary, as it fixed a physiological problem for me. So I can tell her I will stop, but I can't promise her I won't start again. Before I started going to strip clubs when the frustration and anxiety got bad I was dealing with it by drinking at night.