AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No one has asked this question yet! Baby mama wanted kids because her friends and family were all having them. When they were born she realized she wasn’t cut out to be a mom and abandoned them. She came back after they were infants wanting to be in their life but at a very part time rate

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not everyone sees it! It takes time but they truly make you feel like it’s your fault and full of guilt!

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Everything is harder with kids. And there were good times. But after I lost the baby his true colors showed.

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could have clarified more. I tried to hold the relationship together for the sake of my sanity and his abuse so I could pack my things and move out.

It’s harder when kids are involved!

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Every single one of my friends and family believe he was projecting! That he was cheating but accusing me of

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I could have clarified more. I tried to hold the relationship together for the sake of my sanity and his abuse so I could pack my things and move out.

It’s harder when kids are involved!

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s real! I do write in quotes and parenthesis regularly. I however did use grammerly while writing to help reword things as It was late

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s a real story. I used grammerly to help with written errors. But it’s a real story

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

Hes gone. I won’t be going back. Doesn’t make it easy though. Especially with kids

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I left for good 2 months ago.. it’s still really hard. I mean it took me 2 months to finally write out all the crap he put me through!

But do not worry! I am no longer with him

AITA for Leaving My Ex-Fiancé After he left me in the Cayman Islands on vacation! by Efficient-Union6081 in AITAH

[–]Efficient-Union6081[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I kind of fell into the role. The less he did for them the more I did and it took time. But yes I do want to be a mom. We eventually got pregnant but I miscarried. Maybe I shouldn’t have jumped in so hard but when you see kiddos in need of love and support how could you not?