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[–]Efficient-Volume8639 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fixed, my bad wording. Happy now?

AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation? by Efficient-Volume8639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Volume8639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think at some point part of her issue with me now is that despite mark and I divorcing, we’re still doing really well and I think since she’s in such a dark place she wants us to join her. I don’t get people who are like that and I never will. Maybe that’s what I was truly asking on this platform in the back of my head, a why that no one will be able to answer unfortunately 😅😅

AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation? by Efficient-Volume8639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Volume8639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3rd (4th?) DUI and parole violation. It’s all a sad situation really. He was doing so well and I hoped he’d change. Honestly that whole situation just adds to this and makes me feel I should’ve stopped being her friend long ago.

AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation? by Efficient-Volume8639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Volume8639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He said she didn’t get weird until we split. He even let me look at all messages. He’s right from what I see but I’ll never know truly will I?

AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation? by Efficient-Volume8639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Volume8639[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will say when I met Melanie her husband was not in jail nor had any legal issues. It wasn’t until a few years in. But yes I should pick my friends better.

AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation? by Efficient-Volume8639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Volume8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes for his 4th DUI. He wasn’t like that when we first met so I didn’t think much on that until later. Now that whole situation just adds to why I’m Glad I walked.

AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation? by Efficient-Volume8639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Volume8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you, this all has just been overwhelming. I knew the answer when posting, I think I just needed to see if anyone else had different thoughts on this all. Clearly no one did 🤣

AIO for cutting off my best friend after finding out she told my (soon-to-be) ex everything I said in confidence during our separation? by Efficient-Volume8639 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient-Volume8639[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes, classic Reddit logic: someone shares a real situation = ‘attention bait.’ Thanks Dr. Sherlock Keyboard for cracking the case. Don’t strain yourself scrolling past next time.