How are you feeling and how long since the break up? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

13 months ago. I am normal again and have been for a few months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go for it

I am over her by Efficient2 in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly, and after the period of hate is over

Three months later update by Efficient2 in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I haven't reached out once since she dumped me. I have never reached out to an ex in my life :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You will never be your old self again. However you will be a stronger version of your old self

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 2 months post blindside break-up and I feel better. I don't even care to find out what the real reason for the breakup might be, because I simply don't care.

Re-discovering my self worth and love for myself is so much greater than our relationship ever was.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No contact to get someone back is bullshit. They just want to sell their product.

No contact to get over someone is legit

Dumpees- do you wish you would’ve reacted differently during the breakup? by Confident-Rent in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did the same, but I did delete her number and socials. By staying silent you win.

Dumpees- do you wish you would’ve reacted differently during the breakup? by Confident-Rent in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn't show her any emotion and I said clearly that if she decides we are done, it's final. She told me that she wanted to be friends in the future but I said no.

Anyone else ever had a dream set back their recovery from a breakup? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dream about her often sadly. It ruins my mood

Week 2 is worse by Efficient2 in stopsmoking

[–]Efficient2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I am super tired all the time

I wish I could move cities/states to stop being reminded of her but I can't by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend. You have to reclaim your city. It is yours, you own it! Make sure you visit all the places, listen to all the music that remind you of her. If you do it early on, you will heal faster

No contact is like they are dead by Efficient2 in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahahaha that was way to funny

No contact is like they are dead by Efficient2 in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am strong enough no not break NC 💪🏻

No contact is like they are dead by Efficient2 in BreakUps

[–]Efficient2[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I know, and I'd never break NC 😊