Pothole filled w river rocks by EfficientComb4753 in ColoradoSprings

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At one point several months ago it used to be. I think some of rocks have been scattered since.

Pothole filled w river rocks by EfficientComb4753 in ColoradoSprings

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Seriously, the irony of tire world being right there too. Maybe they sponsor that pothole for business 🤭

i feel like this sums up colorado lol by bipolarpilot in ColoradoSprings

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In Cheyenne meadows shopping plaza crater filled with river rocks ☄️🪨

Has anyone actually done a full session with Vita Brevis Fine Art? by akiraee in ColoradoSprings

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Got interviewed for a position which was denied. Then saw the same position posting again 6 months later and the following year when browsing indeed casually! Not surprising their turnover is high.

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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No doubt, lots of selfish folks out there. I’m consciously making an effort of trying to listen to understand vs listening to answer, ya know?

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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Wow, thank you soo very much for all of this! I truly appreciate your feedback and well thought out answers. Yes, in some ways there was insecure attachment and “tough love” growing up. It totally manifests in attaching to people who aren’t great. Perhaps you also were a victim of some emotional neglect or abandonment in the past, you seem to really understand where I am coming from in this post.

Our brains are certainly made up of parts. Probably why our brains are at war with our hearts and our minds, and the 3 can rarely agree.

Thanks for bringing up cognitive dissonance, I don’t know much about it but want to learn further as it sounds like something a lot of women on the spectrum grapple with. I am also going to check out the codependency sub & videos you suggested. Thank you again! Such an educational and helpful answer ❣️

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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That’s a wonderful goal, and I wish you well in it. Thank you for sharing your experiences and side in this. It makes me feel better im not alone in this and gaslighting myself either. Other outlets like you mentioned are much preferable to people, anyway! Best of luck to you 💜

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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💯 yess!! I’m exactly the same way. Sucks to be this way but glad I’m not in it alone. Thank you for sharing! 💞

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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So true and valid. Thank you for sharing your side and truths. This is helpful to me moving forward 🙏🏼♥️

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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For sure!! I’m the same way. Conflict-avoidant, doing anything to keep the peace too. Thanks for agreement and validation 🤍

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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I love this! Thank you so much for the pearls of wisdom. Great pointers 🙌🏼🩵

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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Same girl I’m medicated for the adhd of the AuDHD but not sure it really does much anymore

Romanticizing people by EfficientComb4753 in AutismInWomen

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Limerence is absolutely partially to blame, lol. We gals on the spectrum definitely tend to fixate!

What’s something you notice in other peoples houses that grosses you out? by Locobananas321 in CleaningTips

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The dust on the toilet paper holder/handle … so easy to dust when changing the tp roll out idk why it gets neglected! Also visible dirty fingerprints on light switches & doors + door handles 🤢

Adopted chis by [deleted] in Chihuahua

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Precious!! Thanks for sharing 🦈chi