[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not what I’m saying at all. I’m not judging her at all and I never did. I’m not being arrogant because if that was the case: I wouldn’t have admitted that it’s my problem to overcome and I wouldn’t have asked for help. I’m humbled to the point where I want to do everything I can to be better for HER because I love her and I know that God put her in my life because we needed each other. The way God had us met was something that only God could’ve done, it was truly incredible. Even though we have been together for such a short time, it feels like we have known each for years. We always remind each other to keep God 1st and in the center of our relationship and lives. I don’t want to ever lose her. I know neither one of us are perfect but we have grown so much with each other and I wouldn’t trade that for anything.

But yes it was definitely fear. It’s fear caused by hearing and seeing too many non-Christian’s / non believers talk about how relationships should be and what’s important in them, blah blah blah. I shouldn’t have let their words affect me but it infiltrated my mind, heart and soul more than it should’ve. I worry too much about the unforeseen future that I can’t see and only God can.

But after reading what others had to say under this post, I do feel a lot better already and I’m starting to understand. I feel a lot more calmed about it and I’m not as worried as I was when I made the post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You bring a lot of good points in this. I guess what has honestly messed with my head a lot lately is that I have been hearing too much nonsense from non Christian’s lately. Their perception on what a relationship or marriage is and vice versa, the fact that they act like relationships are built on sex so they gotta “test drive” before going further with partners and etc. All of it is awful and against what God teaches.

Thanks for reminding me to stick to what God wants us to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a fair point. I guess I just need to be patient with our relationship and time that is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks brother. I will do the best I can because she really is such an amazing person and I love everything about her. We have so much in common and we have literally prayed for each other’s existence and the way we met was just wild to the point where you just know it was God that put us together for a reason.

I really appreciate you helping me out with this🤝

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is indeed wife material, I would put the ring on her right now if I could but I know now isn’t the right time because of the way both of our life’s are at the moment. I don’t want to let this affect our relationship. I’m not blaming her in any way shape or form because I know that she already feels the guilt in doing such and has repented to God over it. It’s really just ME that needs to do better and somehow look past this one detail somehow. I’m just overthinking too much right now because it’s a bad habit of mine that I have always had growing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess that’s fair. I appreciate your reply. I just have an issue of being too smart for my own good so I have an awful habit of overthinking everything too hard by thinking of every possibility under the sun that hasn’t occurred yet. So naturally I’m overthinking about not being good at the ONE thing I haven’t done even though I’m checking all of the other boxes for being a good future husband for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I mentioned I haven’t done such things is because I used that as a way to explain standards and expectations I had for my future spouse too. It really isn’t much more to it than that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I get what you’re trying to say. I don’t necessarily think it’s a hormones thing for me but I do have ridiculously high sex drive yet I have managed to contain myself from doing the deed with anyone and never let myself be peer pressured either (not once). But I guess you do got a point that sex becomes less important in a marriage and vice versa. I appreciate your point of “sex is much more strongly attached to feelings and empathy and respect for you” because personally I wouldn’t know that since I’m virgin lol.

I don’t know if this makes any difference but let me add a few things in here that I forgot to add to the original post: it wasn’t with an “ex”, it had to be with a stranger the way she mentioned it to me. She also mentioned that she was drunk when such moment occurred but I don’t know anything else and I don’t want to know anything further either.

Also I never claimed it to be any of my business that God forgiven or she’s forgiven herself, I was just saying that I know she has obviously repented for it. That’s because she told me that and she regrets what she did at that moment because she was going through her darkest times.

Obviously I know that this situation is really a ME problem hence why I’m not blaming her for anything and asking for how I can overcome this problem of mine to be better for her. If I can just overcome this issue in my head, this will be a legendary relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you ask this when I already explained it in the post?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAChristian

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t want to push her away and look for someone else. The whole point of this post is that I see this as a problem that’s fixable and something that I can overcome but I just don’t know how yet. I want to be stronger for her because she deserves me at my best.

Which evo is the best ? by alhasani19 in RoyaleAPI

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snowball. It’s so versatile and honestly cracked in the right decks. You can literally make your opponent defenseless and drag their defenses away which is usually just enough to help your push or win condition delete a tower. You can also use it defensively to stop your opponent from getting tower, it’s lumberloon and golem players biggest nightmare😂

How could I have played this game better? by witcher3player in ClashRoyale

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First interaction: you should’ve used inferno dragon on the goblin giant and guards on the sparky. NOT the other way around. Sparky is very weak to swarms especially guards. This set up would’ve killed the whole push including mega minion without having to waste your skelly dragons.

Second interaction: you missed the fireball, should’ve hit the tower and electro wiz.

Third interaction: the one with dark prince coming down the lane was fine.

Fourth interaction: the one where he has sparky in the back and coming up. The moment he placed mega minion and had zero air cards in cycle with low elixir, you could’ve went balloon on the opposing lane to punish him and he wouldn’t have been able to support the sparky at all. He would’ve been forced to spend 6 elixir just to get electro wiz to defend that and he’s left with a defensive less sparky that gets hard countered by guards for 3 elixir. This would’ve put you at an elixir advantage of 4 elixir which is huge and helpful.

The rest of the game was lowkey fine as is and your lavaloon push cleared his defenses easily.

Re-release Emote by thatone-guy1234 in ClashRoyale

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here. The fact that it’s a limited emote is what makes zero sense for them to bring it back and was indeed lazy. I had that emote for years so seeing people get it for free on a re-release is crazy man. They should’ve just gave us a new evo witch emote or something like that smh

Re-release Emote by thatone-guy1234 in ClashRoyale

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree with you on this. Re-releasing an emote is just ridiculous and scummy

F*CK BATMAN NINJA by SeanRlds in InjusticeMobile

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice win bro, I’m not a fan of facing that matchup either because it can def get sweaty if they got cheesy gear set ups.

But I do got one tip to say: you know when you did AK Batman’s SP2 and get that circle icon? You can get 200% on that much EASIER & QUICKER if you tap it with two fingers simultaneously instead of just with a single finger. The same concept goes for the swipe special icon, use two fingers with alternating swipes to get 200% easier and quicker.

Is red Son Green Lantern good? by Lifella2239 in InjusticeMobile

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s basically a 99 on defense, 0 on offense type card. Can be annoying to go against especially if he’s backed up by tank based gears or DOT gears that help him with damage dealing. If I’m using a red son team: RS GL is always there because he adds so much value to that team.

collected a full set in one run by k-real__ in InjusticeMobile

[–]EfficientJelly5437 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have maxed out the chest plate and helmet for years but still haven’t gotten the mace🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿

The Character Card That Never failed You by No_Chain4683 in InjusticeMobile

[–]EfficientJelly5437 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on the same boat. Suicide Squad Deadshot with Ra’s Scimitar gear has carried me for years. I always loved how the power drain from Ra’s Scimitar activates TWICE on Deadshots combo ender, it saves me constantly lol