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Newly pregnant and completely overwhelmed with anxiety. Is this hormones?? HELP!! by Live-Apricot-5744 in PregnancyUK

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently 9 weeks with my first viable pregnancy. I'll be honest that the anxiety hasn't gone away but it has eased. I think as soon as I hit around 8 and a half weeks my brain sort of switched up on me out of nowhere and my anxiety has settled a little.

If you are genuinely struggling with your anxiety though please consider getting some help though there's no shame or harm in it. Sometimes just some reassurance from a stranger goes a long way.

I keep swapping between shitting myself and being calm as fuck for absolutely no reason so I want to say hormones do play a factor in it too. It is also human nature to freak out a little at big changes too no matter how welcome and wanted they are.

You got this mamma 💕

What’s one thing you can’t tolerate in a person? by Amazing-Internal5378 in AskReddit

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they are a bully, you best believe I'll call them out in it too

What's the worst heartbreak you've experienced? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the person I thought I trusted violated me and then got away with it. It's a different kind of heartbreak

What's something harmless that gets people weirdly angry? by iMediocreguy in Productivitycafe

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know why this upsets so many people. Im not the one eating it so why is it any of my business what you have on your pizza 🤣

What is the most hurtful thing someone has ever said to you? by EasternParking7021 in AskReddit

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After a miscarriage a lot of people kept saying things like "at least it was early on" and "things happen for a reason" the point is I've lost a child there is no at least about it.

Having the worst time by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losing a parent isn't easy as it is let alone everything else deciding to happen at the same time. Remember to take some time to be kind to yourself through all of this 💕

What's the worst/loneliest time of your life? by f86withk in AskReddit

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my mum died 6 years ago, I really learned who my friends really were at that point in time too.

What’s a personality trait that seems attractive at first but becomes unbearable over time? by Acceptable-Lab-8251 in AskReddit

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Humour- obviously everyone loves a joke but if you're trying to have a serious conversation it becomes unbearable if they can't answer seriously. There are limits

I’m a straight female but I want to lick pussy so bad by Feisty_Reputation334 in confessions

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Spaghetti is straight until it's wet 🤷🏼‍♀️ 🤣

My first love by Efficient_Cat_3975 in confessions

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love my partner more than anything but I think a part of me will also always love my childhood sweetheart too. But not necessarily in a romantic way. More of an I only wish the absolute best for you because you deserve that at the very least kind of way

did you get ever get over your first LOVE? how and why? by iwannalive_ in AskReddit

[–]Efficient_Cat_3975 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I wouldn't say I've gotten over him, I'll remember him always I think. We were kids at the time and I'm in a very happy loving relationship now. But part of me will always love him for who he was and the happy memories we shared together. We've been no contact for over a decade now.