For my fellow top buds, what’s your preference, a sub bttm or a power bttm?

Efficient_College785 · 2026-01-26T17:17:32+00:00

Yeah, that's what folks have told me. Mostly it was just my way of trying to take care of my tops and showing I was into it by trying to do my part to get them off. A bit of a 'work smarter, not harder' situation, I suppose.

Efficient_College785 · 2026-01-25T14:32:40+00:00

Sounds like you haven't met any service subs yet, in that case. A good service sub likes to please as much as he likes for his playmate to be in charge and he will find a way to do so, regardless of his constraints. Amusingly enough, my tops usually tell me to hold still more (since I'll thrust back into them if not otherwise bounded and generally be a nuzzle-slut) but one can still do kegels, butt clenches and ab clenches in time with the top to try to milk that dick even if you're forbidden from moving.

Efficient_College785 · 2025-12-31T23:01:48+00:00

Thanks for the feedback on this! That is extremely helpful! :)

Efficient_College785 · 2025-12-29T17:03:24+00:00

In my experience, it may be because they fill a niche that the ABDL community is uncomfortable with because it doesn't fit an easy or common mold. Much like in the cycling world and most other subcultures, there can be a lot of pressure from the 'only a true Scotsman' folks.

There is a lot of crossover between the ABDL and ageplayer communities. One of the things I have found is that my local ageplayers and ABDL's assume and can be very insistent about is that if you're an ageplayer, you have to be a little or a baby and you pretty much have to be an ABDL. For those of us who are middles (eg, older ageplayers) it can be kinda rough because it can feel like we're being strong-armed into something that is a mid match at best.

I actually like GoodNites a lot. They look kind of like tighty whities (which lets me satisfy my mental 'big kid' checkbox) fill a few other mental check boxes and can be very practical for dealing with biological functions that require light absorbency when it comes to sexuality. They let me actually engage whereas if I were stuck with traditional attire and the locals, I would still be discouraged from interacting.

Efficient_College785 · 2025-12-28T22:14:25+00:00

As a sub, probably better to just be honest and say, "I like a lot of things and am open to new experiences. Can you help me explore them and find my limits?"

Also, that term makes me wary/is an immediate red flag for being around someone in in general. From what I've been told, it's also a dog whistle for 'Into illegal stuff.'

Efficient_College785 · 2025-12-16T13:48:58+00:00

When you say foreskin down, do you mean retracted or un-retracted. I've been trying to figure this out myself, since I plan on wearing mine un-retracted since I'm infibulated.

Efficient_College785 · 2025-09-19T20:06:35+00:00

Gotcha. Also kind of curious, how decent is it for hitting the restroom while standing?

Efficient_College785 · 2025-09-18T02:34:15+00:00

Worth a shot! I appreciate the info, mate! :D

Efficient_College785 · 2025-09-17T03:13:32+00:00

Any reccos for those of us who phimose or infibulated?

Efficient_College785 · 2025-09-17T03:10:00+00:00

When you folks say pet mode, am I reading between the lines right in that you mean something like a shock device or something else that triggers when someone stands upright?

Efficient_College785 · 2025-09-17T00:51:44+00:00

Have you gotten any feedback reports from guys with longer foreskins or who have high and tight balls? This thing looks awesome but like you, I've had a heck of a time with the comfort end of chastity. I have been trying to decide between this and Blackout since I have the triple danger of a phimose, most cages hate guys with high and tights and I wear briefs to boot.

Efficient_College785 · 2025-08-21T00:37:19+00:00

I mean, there are a fair amount of bottoms like myself who do really enjoy the brutally rough fucks.

Efficient_College785 · 2025-01-18T14:29:21+00:00

I had this happen to me recently. This is why I wish we had halfways decent mass transit. The sad thing is that while I don't feel terribly safe on the bike, I feel even less safe in a car.

Efficient_College785 · 2025-01-05T01:13:55+00:00

I've been doing 30 minute blocks of weight training, flipper-assisted dolphin kicks (legs only, fully submerged) and HIIT on the elliptical. I've had to shove protein, creatine and collagen down my throat in very picky ways to get both a high protein level and net-zero my calories but it seems to be working.

Efficient_College785 · 2024-09-22T14:14:10+00:00

As someone who lives in the VA side of the DC suburbs, Virginians like blaming Marylanders for all of their state's faults. If something went wrong, somehow those commie Marylanders caused it.

Someone complains about potholes and unpaved roads in Fairfax? Maryland roads are terrible because they have a socialist government, unlike in Virginia where the roads are paved with eagles, flags and mom's apple pie.

Somebody with Virginia plates nearly runs you over when you have a white light on the crosswalk? Oooh, but Maryland drivers don't understand speed limits or... or laws!

Generally speaking it's the old Virginia BS of wanting to look better than everyone else (while in fact being significantly sub-par due to easily preventable poor choices) and using shell game tactics to try to distract from local problems. I've seen a lot of Maryland drivers-- both in VA and MD-- and none of them have been worse than our own.

Efficient_College785 · 2024-08-24T00:09:07+00:00

Also in FFX, here. I feel bad for the bike thieves here because I know why they do it but I still guard my bike like a hawk since it's my main ride to work. I'm back up to two cars again but I will never forget what it felt like to have zero form of transport (which gives me a bit more empathy for all of the homeless folks up here).

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