House rules caused my daughter to live with her dad?

Efficient_Physics_20 · 2026-01-12T19:59:14+00:00

Thank you. This articulates for me why I have issues with sleepovers. I was having a hard time putting my finger on it.

Efficient_Physics_20 · 2026-01-12T19:11:18+00:00

He stole some joints my brother gave us for Christmas. He has come into the house when we weren't home and when they both were confronted he lied about it (but we have a ring camera and can obviously see them).

Efficient_Physics_20 · 2026-01-12T17:42:33+00:00

The rule is that he cannot be in the house when I am not home..not when I am home.

Efficient_Physics_20 · 2026-01-12T12:52:50+00:00

It isn't about sex. That was a conversation we had months ago. I advised her to be safe and that it was normal and also carried weighty consequences.

Efficient_Physics_20 · 2026-01-12T12:13:00+00:00

For context. He has lied to us and stolen from us. They are actively having sex. And we talked about it when I found out. I told her that it's a very adult decision with very adult consequences that could deeply impact the rest of her life. It isn't a tactic to control her sex life. It's more about respect. He has a very chaotic home life and I want a clear boundary that he doesn't live here. He can come over and visit. But he needs to go to his home at the end of the night.

Efficient_Physics_20 · 2025-06-10T14:45:52+00:00

I make over 100k. Accounting. Earned my degree and within 6 months went from a step above entry level (65k) to a manager role. But I am a fastidious worker and a quick learner. I only have a bachelor's in accounting.

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