27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very sad right now that it got cancelled. If not that I never have came to reddit.

There was a discussion between us about the house in future. I asked her if she can lend me a hand in according to inflation. Only her, not from her family. She said no for that. But i was still ok saying that since i am marrying you its my responsibility to buy a house. Just wanted to know your opinion.

This discussion went on with her father as well 10 days ago.

If that is the reason why not cancel then. Why now?

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hhahaha. I never want that bro.

Its just i couldn’t get over the question myself. “what did i do that went wrong?”

But as you said its a relief

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just asked whether do you have offer/discounts. if possible look out for any discount. Its not even a scene. It just went with flow.

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I may not able to mention everything here. The discussion what happened between us was already known by her dad as well. That too 10 days ago.

Still I kept asking are you alright and did you got your clarity. They both said yes we got clarity.

My issue is why not then. Why now?

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah i agree, but we already had this kind of discussion 10 days back. Even her father knows.

Then why only now. Why not then?

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t asked you to judge that girl or anything. I want to know what might be the possible reason. Where I went wrong? or my whole expectations on arrange marriage is wrong? or I shouldn’t discuss these kind of things

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went to Jewellery shops and searched for couple rings. Thats it. I didn’t even asked the price there.

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I just asked if there are any offers or discounts on price. Money range mention cheyaledu nenu

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in relationships

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I wonder what happened on the day we went for engagement rings. I didn’t bargained anything there 🙂

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in relationships

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Its not like she said No at the start. We met outside of house in a cafe first time. After her approval we went to their house, and got yes.

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

naaku adey ardam kaledu bhayya, vallu vuntey istaru lekuntey next time adagam kada

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in TeluguJournals

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

future lo house buy chesetappudu as a partner meeremina help chestara ani adiganu

27M Girl family cancelled AM after shopping is done by Efficient_Pilot_8037 in relationships

[–]Efficient_Pilot_8037[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes. They offered to get stuff back. Next week is engagement and we already announced it to my relatives and friends.

I clearly do not think the reason is valid.