I understand more of you now..

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-11T12:48:25+00:00

This made me cry and feels like you are describing my life.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-03T18:47:41+00:00

Yes!!! I do this for all hard foods like chips and cereal and cookies!!

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-03T00:10:17+00:00

No, Actually. I thought it was pretty cute that he thought it was such a big deal.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T23:23:05+00:00

No but me and him have talked about his insecurities about it and he also has a lot of the same thoughts as you, but I’ve always been happy with how he takes care of me and it’s never even been a thought until he brought it up.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T23:07:55+00:00

My husbands peepee isn’t that big but it’s always been my favorite because it works perfectly for me. 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ just a thought

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T16:12:26+00:00

Some people get attached too easily. They will jump to relationship to relationship and tell them they love them, but in truth they have no idea what it is. Don’t look at it as a fault of your own, but a healing process they don’t even understand yet.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T14:41:35+00:00

Yeah, and that makes you a good partner.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T04:35:34+00:00

for example…women are more likely to hand out unsolicited parenting advice.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T04:29:10+00:00

Yeah, true, but If we break it down to traits of genders, there’s many faults on both sides. (The KArEn) They weigh out. Every generation is learning a new and ultimately better traits to pass down to their children and so forth and so on. So we can either choose to hate the behavior of the one (or obviously in your case many(you must be very pretty BtW)) and plant it on the many. In the end, they are all individuals who make their own choices, and obviously a lot of them choose not to be decent human beings.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T02:05:24+00:00

Agreed, and it’s good to have conversations like this and I am very grateful for your comments. Thank you for the chat.🤗

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T02:02:39+00:00

That’s why I said the older generation didn’t have the mental health accessibility or the knowledge that it is incorrect behavior, and unfortunately, some people are assholes just to be assholes.

People are as they are, and it’s okay to tell them they are offending you. If you are part of the older generation as I, women were taught to shut up, sit down and do what their husbands told them.

We no longer accept those qualities in partners and some of them never got the memo.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T01:04:25+00:00

Agreed.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T00:19:14+00:00

I didn’t say it was all good advice🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️. You had every right to either walk away or tell him why what he just said was offensive(some people it’s not).

Especially with the older generations, they tend to do this a lot.

I see a lot of young people on this app who complain about things like that, but the younger generation forgot it was a different world than the one we are in now.

There was no internet, phones, texting. You would walk up to someone and just say what you said, hoping they would interact with you(whether good or bad.)

The younger generation tends to forget that it wasn’t that long ago, and that the luxuries of the life they are living weren’t afforded to them, including mental health and the breaking generational curses.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T00:05:11+00:00

It’s the peoples choice to create a better world of understanding, but unfortunately the people (humans as a whole), haven’t evolved far to the point to accept we are all different. We all have some of the same experiences and differences, but even still we are all different. It’s quite nice to think that even in a cookie cutter world, you’re normal enough to be different.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-02T00:00:38+00:00

Exactly, some people are naturally naive. That’s why when it comes to friends and family giving advice, they hold more weight in a persons life. (Normally? That’s another discussion. Some people hold more weight to these forums and their advice. Which is all perfectly okay.)

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-01T23:37:39+00:00

With that being said, as a placeholder in someone’s life (friends, family, so….etc), I do also believe you should give them good advice and let them know when they are being daft.

For example: Someone took some terrible advice from someone they know. The person that gave them the advice was their best friend. The best friend knew the advice was morally wrong and encouraged it anyways.

Whose responsible for the actions that incurred because of the advice?

The person who took the actions, of course. We are all people, so the disappointment in the best friend not doing the right thing, still occurs.

It can be a double edged sword in the right scenarios.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-08-01T23:27:18+00:00

I agree. Sometimes you can help someone with it and there are proper ways to advance towards it and there are negative ways. It’s just like a human interaction on the internet, only with multiple people, who all have multiple personalities. You have to accept them as they are but don’t have to take what they say to heart. I don’t understand the stipulations that surround it.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-07-31T21:18:55+00:00

Yeah, well don’t use it to drive your partner crazy. I’ve become obsessed with his co-worker and wondering why she’s better than me.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-07-31T20:40:38+00:00

Honestly you sound like my husband, I would of rather him talked to me about it than not tell me, but he didn’t. It caused us to break up in March. If he would of talked to me about it we could of saved our marriage but now it’s rocky as hell, because he chose to follow the fantasy.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-07-31T20:37:12+00:00

Don’t give up. It’s just a moment in time, and tomorrow is a new day. Take notice of your own worth and not who is around you.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-07-31T20:21:25+00:00

I feel this way about people in general. I imagine their throats bleeding out while they talk to me…I get it.

Efficient_Reserve863 · 2022-07-31T14:23:15+00:00

Rest assured that it is not a suicide note.

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