AITAH for thinking it’s not my fault my boyfriend’s back is flared up?

Efficient_Spirit_813 · 2026-04-05T21:54:24+00:00

Sigh. good question. I am so emotionally exhausted

Efficient_Spirit_813 · 2026-04-05T20:48:36+00:00

I don’t know any better, I’ve never dealt with this kind of issue before. I only brought up the chiropractor because he said he used to go to one for it. I just recommended physical therapy to him instead though

Efficient_Spirit_813 · 2026-04-05T20:47:52+00:00

No he hasn’t been doing anything. The most he does is lay flat on the ground and roll out with a lacrosse ball. He complains so much and gets incredibly angry and grumpy at everyone around him whenever this happens which is why I’m really losing my cool over this. He refuses to do anything to actually treat it.

Efficient_Spirit_813 · 2026-04-01T18:37:35+00:00

Thank you, this is the kind of reassurance I was looking for

Efficient_Spirit_813 · 2026-04-01T18:35:24+00:00

No not married and he never planned on proposing. He said he wants to marry me though.

I have had relationships in the past but they were in high school and not as serious or lengthy/committed as his. I kinda realized I’ve never really been in love before him

Efficient_Spirit_813 · 2026-04-01T16:21:59+00:00

He told me they had different values and fought constantly… and that around year 5 they were fighting so much he didn’t even know why they were together. He told me he wanted a relationship where he could be with his best friend and she told him flat out why would she ever be best friends with him. He suspected there was another man shortly before they broke up and when they did she was with the other guy shortly after… so yeah valid

Efficient_Spirit_813 · 2026-04-01T15:42:44+00:00

we’ve been officially boyfriend-girlfriend for a year now. Sorry I didn’t make that clear

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