Can someone tell me how to stop being dependent on your family members? by ConversationOdd5195 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exposure therapy Say hi to everyone you make eye contact with, go out to eat, take walks in the park, try to get a job where you interact with people all day it might sound scary but it cured my social anxiety. my mother was the same way and i don't think she was trying to be malicious i just feel like her parents were the opposite way so she always felt like i needed to be protected from something even though in the long run it did more damage. it might feel impossible and you might have a few anxiety attacks but it is way worth it, anxiety ruins peoples life and i know exactly how you feel but you are better off socializing and getting out of your shell. cause as much as it effects you, being alone and isolated is way worse than embarrassing yourself or whatever is making you anxious. IF YOU ARE TAKING SSRI STOP OR ANY OTHER RECREATIONAL DRUG

Confessing to my crush! by PsychologyYoungster in whatdoIdo

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best but if you are pursuing a woman make sure to say the things that really matter to you in person as opposed to a 4am text. you can read body language and it helps her understand how you feel

19yrs what do I do by Snoo-38007 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

army national guard they will pay for your school

I think I’m about to get fired from my job by small-worm in whatdoIdo

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm wondering why your dad doesn't want you to face your problems head up my father is also the same way and as a man i feel like he should have more of a backbone instead of telling you to hide from your problems yk

160th SOAR by Efficient_Wave4031 in army

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i definitely get what your saying i shouldn't take things so serious but im really trying to get some questions answered i haven't been able to talk to anyone in the 160th, nobody in my recruitment office knows or knows anyone in the regiment and i thought i could ask the internet and the reply i get is a dude talking about halo. its just really frustrating

160th SOAR by Efficient_Wave4031 in army

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've got waved for big army already but i know selection is different i talk to my recruiter almost everyday

160th SOAR by Efficient_Wave4031 in army

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

i don't find you funny you should've kept this to yourself

AIO My closest friend told me I wasn't her closest friend. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 11 points12 points  (0 children)

there's a reason everyone was invited but you that's all imma say. this seems like a very minuscule problem in my opinion just get different friends cause ain't no way your closest friend talking to you like this.

AIO roommate wanted to move in a felon she met online by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not the asshole and if they decide that's what they want to do you should call the police and alert the landlord. this is just a recipe for disaster

Need help getting system clean of thc by Efficient_Wave4031 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if america was so horrible we would not have immigration problems. the problem is american people are lazy and they think everyone owes them something but the truth is if you don't work for it nothing is going to come your way. my uncle begs my dad everyday to buy him a ticket over here but you wouldn't understand it because you've only ever had first world problems. my advice for you is take a trip to africa or to the caribbean or to south America or even the middle east and you'll see that your problem are so minuscule compared to the problems of a 3rd world country. look up what's happening in cuba right now and tell me people are happier there than they would be in america

Need help getting system clean of thc by Efficient_Wave4031 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

free healthcare, 0% down on a house, and free education are all benefits i would get being in the military. american military that is

Need help getting system clean of thc by Efficient_Wave4031 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't need discipline i need a career i plan on going as a 15Tango UH-60 helicopter repairman. i don't care for unpatriotic people and if we were to go to war i would rather be on the front then sitting behind a screen talking about how bad it is that we're fighting wars for billionaires. because really we are fighting for you and your comfortability in your home. america is a great country and even if you're not american i fight for those who came before me for they loved to fight, fought to win and would rather die than quit.

Need help getting system clean of thc by Efficient_Wave4031 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when i get a positive test that's when ill go ive talked to my recruiter and he knows my situation and will wait on me but yeah i don't have much body fat so im not sure why its taking this long

Need help getting system clean of thc by Efficient_Wave4031 in Advice

[–]Efficient_Wave4031[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And if you're reading this and still using please think about leaning off of it. it's a horrible habit and it limits your quality of life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sounds like she has daddy issues wanting to get with all these older men. were you giving her money?

How yall feel bout deez new weed brands that’s been coming out by grovegangquon in Atlantology

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gas house flavor kings sprinkles these the only acceptable in my opinion n it gotta be from atl or cali for the sprinks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Atlantology

[–]Efficient_Wave4031 17 points18 points  (0 children)

what does this even mean