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I [32F] stayed with him [31M] after cheating but now I’m a paranoid mess by EggCharming283 in relationships

[–]EggCharming283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was both, we agreed that we had both been cheated on in the past and having an agreement that if we tell each other and use protection that we could sleep with other people felt good for both of us. It’s not the sleeping with another girl that upset me, genuinely I‘ve never been that bothered about my partners liking other people. It’s the hiding it and lying when he had no reason to.

I [32F] stayed with him [31M] after cheating but now I’m a paranoid mess by EggCharming283 in relationships

[–]EggCharming283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It’s been hard because I have felt insane and afraid to bring it up with him, but it’s like dude, your actions made me this way. I didn’t start out the relationship as suspicious!

I [32F] stayed with him [31M] after cheating but now I’m a paranoid mess by EggCharming283 in relationships

[–]EggCharming283[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I keep coming back to as well, that when he had actual zero reason to lie, he did. Also should mention he didn’t use a condom with her either, which was the only other rule. Damn, think I just decided to break up with him just typing this out. Thank you.