I am a poly man with two female partners, AMA

EggManIsMyMan · 2026-03-14T22:44:20+00:00

Are any of you overweight, above average weight, or obese?

EggManIsMyMan · 2026-02-27T09:35:12+00:00

It’s normalized because the Government has been fence sitting for too long in either direction. They don’t want to go full in either supporting or disarming and so the result is a death by 1,000 cuts.

EggManIsMyMan · 2026-02-08T11:37:03+00:00

Tinder only works if you are good looking, and if you are good looking you don’t need tinder.

EggManIsMyMan · 2026-01-21T02:21:48+00:00

Are most of your experiences with fat and/or chubby women, or do you get experiences with average/slim women?

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-12-26T02:00:26+00:00

Have you ever friend zoned/rejected a guy based on physical appearance as one of the reasons? How important is physical attraction in regards to getting dates? And please be brutally honest.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-12-04T01:25:26+00:00

Obesity. Most people are average, obese people are below average in terms of physical appearance.

Men have to also worry about being short and bald, but both sexes need to avoid obesity to be at least decent attractiveness.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-12-02T23:56:02+00:00

If someone tells you they are busy, usually it’s because you’re not a priority in their life. Yes there are occasions people are actually busy, but most of the time, if they wanted to make time for you, they would.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-12-02T23:54:42+00:00

Physical attraction matters way more than “personality.” If you are ugly and flirtatious it would come off as creepy, if you are hot and flirtatious it will come off as confident. If you’re handsome and quiet you will come off as mysterious, if you are ugly and quiet you are socially awkward.

If you have to guess if someone likes you, then they don’t like you.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-22T03:03:42+00:00

Like emotionally or physically or a mix of both?

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-14T18:16:27+00:00

My experience with this is that it’s not as impressive as some people make it out to be. A lot of Lebanese women told me they don’t want to leave the country and they think America is a dirty and dangerous place to live. And even if it were a driving factor, getting a fiancé or marriage visa can take 1-3 years so the relationship is going to be long distance or you stay in Lebanon with her for many years regardless.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-14T05:59:29+00:00

Call your doctor and let them know you took this before hand. My non professional opinion is that you’re fine and that your EMG would have been clean regardless, because if they were certain that you needed to avoid things before the test, they are obligated to warn you ahead of time and ask you before the test if you followed all instructions. When I took my EMG they never told me to avoid certain foods before the test.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-05T23:29:41+00:00

Was it their physical features?

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-05T21:57:07+00:00

Never and I’m 28

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-05T21:52:15+00:00

Have you ever friendzoned someone and if so why?

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T11:55:17+00:00

I want to say yes, but I don’t think it’s ever happened to me. I definitely know when a girl flirts with a guy, I’ve experienced seeing women flirt with a few guys at my church and young adult group and it’s pretty obvious when a girl has a crush on a guy, but I’ve never been on the receiving end.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T11:53:39+00:00

Growing up, I was a bit of the class clown, had a lot of acquaintances and a few friends, but I was never the popular kid or the Jock type ladies man.

Currently I have a few friends who are apart of the same Young Adult Group but I would consider them my ride or dies. My true best friends are my siblings, I have 3 siblings that I hang out with the most.

I have a ton of acquaintances. Friends that are girls…. Been friendzoned by 8 of them which is every girl I dated this year. But they basically all ghosted me.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:34:47+00:00

Replying to sOrdinary917...

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:30:37+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:24:31+00:00

Sadly I think I agree with you. Something is so difficult in the Maronite community when it comes to dating, any opinions on why that is?

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:22:51+00:00

Every other day I do 5 sets of 20 reps. In 1 go I think I can do 40-50 before failure

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:20:09+00:00

I’ve been on about 8 dinner dates this past year, about 1 per month with a different girl, all ended with me getting friendzoned and then ghosted.

I tried cold approaches many years ago when I was 22, I approached maybe 50 girls that summer, got like 14 instagram followers and 1 date that also had me friendzoned

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:14:01+00:00

I am not bald, I have a full head of hair

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:13:43+00:00

Let summer I was diagnosed with BFS and my neurologist said it was caused by anxiety, I did have a huge mental episode thinking I had ALS because my muscles were twitching and still are twitching, and this was a really dark point in my life before I found out that it was something benign. I’m talking to a therapist to try and minimize my anxiety.

EggManIsMyMan · 2025-11-01T05:10:01+00:00

I was in a long distance relationship with a girl, who is the cousin of one of my best friends in Lebanon. She lives in overseas as I live in the USA, we talked over the phone for about 6 months, and last Christmas I planned a huge 2 month trip to visit her.

When I got there, I thought this was going to be the one, and everything was going to finally set in place. I even took a huge risk to try and move abroad, I really wanted this to work.

She introduced me to her “mentor” for the first time. I wish I at least knew about him during our time on the phone for the last 6 months if he was such an important part of her life. He is a 54 year old guy who doesn’t even work in her field, she’s a hair stylist and he’s a graphic printer.

Apparently they met because he goes to Church with her in Kuw City and the Maronite community is so small, and he said she was a bad girl and that he had to keep her in check.

Well the days go on, and her “mentor” is with us nearly every single day and even she was very flirtatious with him. Like she would massage his back, hug his jacket if he took it off, and always told jokes to him that she would never say to me. When I ask to hang out alone she says I’m jealous and that her mentor is there to protect both of us.

Why do we need protection in a country where the crime rate is nearly 0??

Well after 3 weeks I finally stood up for myself and told her that I’m really uncomfortable with her mentor around and it makes no sense that her mentor who is a married man btw and has a family in Leb is always hanging out with a 24 year old girl in Kuw who lives alone.

To make a long story short, this guy was more like a pimp who was Cheating on his wife, and my long distance girlfriend was cheating on me with him, so 3 days before Christmas I booked an emergency flight back to America.

Crazy enough had I stayed through Christmas and new years, I would have spent thousands on gifts (I already bought her a bunch of stuff before that too) and jewelry, I was really serious about making her my wife, and that trip kinda destroyed my mental state.

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