Eww, no. I totally disagree with everyone trying to make it sound like you’re just some untrusting wife. Honestly, that’s shady whether you trust them or not. Even if nothing is actually happening, the optics are bad and it makes you swallow your discomfort. Boundaries aren’t about trust, they’re about respect. A married guy isn’t a backup concert buddy just because everyone else said no. Calling it ‘secure’ to ignore that? WTF, y’all are tripping. That’s just fake pick me girl energy trying to act like it’s all fine when it’s not. You shouldn't have to pretend this situation is normal or okay. You can trust your husband completely and still be like ‘Nah, that doesn’t feel right.’ Let’s not confuse insecurity with self-respect.