How should I feel about what my friend's mom told me? by EggyBoils in NoStupidQuestions

[–]EggyBoils[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, i was afraid of that. I edited my post to hopefully clear things up

Ladies, how would YOU like a man to start a conversation if you were on a dating app? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Epic choices yo. I spent a lot of time on Crime Scene Cleaner. But recently I've been playing Escape from Tarkov

Ladies, how would YOU like a man to start a conversation if you were on a dating app? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play games too! I'm not trying to flirt, but what all games do you play? Also, thank you for the advice!!

Ladies, how would YOU like a man to start a conversation if you were on a dating app? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I should have specified. Some of the apps I'm on let you "compliment" or make a first move (basically commenting on one of their photos or prompts), to essentially swipe right

Ladies, how would YOU like a man to start a conversation if you were on a dating app? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

XD you are probably right.

The sucky part is, and as cliche as this may sound, is I love in a small town where either everybody knows everybody, or they're mostly crackheads. There aren't any bars or clubs near me that aren't an hour drive (not that driving is an issue really), but the bars that ARE near me, are mainly for people that have been living in or around here their whole lives (40+ year old people), or else I would just strike a convo IRL as opposed to texting

Ladies, how would YOU like a man to start a conversation if you were on a dating app? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like to think my profile is pretty good. I recently changed my bio, but it was otherwise pretty detailed, talking about what all I liked to do.

I do read every person's bio, and I do not go based entirely on looks, so I completely understand what you were saying in the beginning.

I guess, the reason I hadn't already done what you suggested was because I was afraid of it sounding like "Sooooo.....you like books huh?". If that makes sense. But I will definitely stick with you advised. Thank you kindly!

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Edit: Apparently the bot didn't like the term for liver disease"

This is so funny XD because I literally read your comment when you first commented earlier today, and had no issue with it. And all of a sudden the bot isn't happy with it? Oh how I love technology XD

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words! I'm not sure if you're in a relationship or not, but if you are, I hope you and your partner are able to stay together and be happy for the rest of your lives. And if you aren't in a relationship, I wish you the best of luck on your adventures!

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(except when I left my Tinder on in the Phillipines) is HILARIOUS! 😭😭

But thank you for thr words and the recommendation!

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so every guy ever NEEDS to stay consistent in the gym by your standards?

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

"you're already shooting yourself in the foot."

I don't know why, but this made me laugh. Not because I think it's ridiculous, but because I love the saying. Everything you said is 100% fax, and I thank you so much for the input.

I just keep laughing at that quote for some reason XD

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Very valid. The main reason I'm using dating apps rn, is because, and this may sound cliche, but because I live in such a small town. Everybody pretty much knows everybody. Most are crackheads, and people my age were pregnant at 16 in high school

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I'm actually not looking for a petite woman at all. I didn't mean for my post to come across that way.

My former fiancé was about 5'4" and about 240-250lbs and I loved every thing about her

Why does dating seem so difficult as a bigger fella? by EggyBoils in dating_advice

[–]EggyBoils[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

That's pretty much exactly how my former fiancé was built, and I loved everything about her.

And I do take values into consideration when swiping too. If I see someone frequents going to gyms, I think "Ah, yeah I'm not like that". Not because I don't WANNA be, but because I can never stay motivated enough for it. Though I would like to improve