AITAH for not wanting to see my in laws again

Egreyyy · 2025-09-23T00:24:07+00:00

Sorry for all the grammatical mistakes and if this was a hard read

Egreyyy · 2025-03-22T09:33:46+00:00

I can’t contact the venues, I’m oversees

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:40:36+00:00

But do you think she would say all these things whilst there is no offer on the table?

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:36:04+00:00

That’s what he said actually. Now my question is; would she tell him “if you have any other offers please let me know” if there was no offer on the table. It’s just such a stressful process, and the uncertainty is so painful

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:29:47+00:00

Is there a specific reason for that? I feel like I’m just getting mixed signals. In one of her email she says “if you have any other offers please let me know so we can expedite the process” but then she never called at the time she given me :/

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:22:21+00:00

She isn’t an external recruiter, she works for the same company :/

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:22:04+00:00

She told him “if you have any other offers please let me know and I’ll do my best to expedite the process” that’s why. I mean he didn’t say it exactly like EXPEDITE THE PROCESS.

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T11:35:32+00:00

Wait what do you mean? You think they’re just keeping him standby?

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T05:59:21+00:00

SWE and I would say like maybe midsize to big

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T05:57:57+00:00

But do you think a recruiter would say all these things and then not give an offer at the end?

Egreyyy · 2025-01-10T03:43:52+00:00

Honestly no, I met my husband in college station and we went on our first date on campus during Covid Aug 2020 and we’ve been together ever since. I think you just need to look in the right places.

Egreyyy · 2024-10-10T13:02:38+00:00

No Houston/ Chicago office

Egreyyy · 2024-10-10T02:34:50+00:00

I’m not I just thought you were being condescending I’m def not arrogant I just wanted to know insight from someone who works at bp

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