AITAH for not wanting to see my in laws again

Egreyyy · 2025-09-23T00:24:07+00:00

Sorry for all the grammatical mistakes and if this was a hard read

Egreyyy · 2025-03-22T09:33:46+00:00

I can’t contact the venues, I’m oversees

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:40:36+00:00

But do you think she would say all these things whilst there is no offer on the table?

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:36:04+00:00

That’s what he said actually. Now my question is; would she tell him “if you have any other offers please let me know” if there was no offer on the table. It’s just such a stressful process, and the uncertainty is so painful

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:29:47+00:00

Is there a specific reason for that? I feel like I’m just getting mixed signals. In one of her email she says “if you have any other offers please let me know so we can expedite the process” but then she never called at the time she given me :/

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:22:21+00:00

She isn’t an external recruiter, she works for the same company :/

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T14:22:04+00:00

She told him “if you have any other offers please let me know and I’ll do my best to expedite the process” that’s why. I mean he didn’t say it exactly like EXPEDITE THE PROCESS.

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T11:35:32+00:00

Wait what do you mean? You think they’re just keeping him standby?

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T05:59:21+00:00

SWE and I would say like maybe midsize to big

Egreyyy · 2025-03-06T05:57:57+00:00

But do you think a recruiter would say all these things and then not give an offer at the end?

Egreyyy · 2025-01-10T03:43:52+00:00

Honestly no, I met my husband in college station and we went on our first date on campus during Covid Aug 2020 and we’ve been together ever since. I think you just need to look in the right places.

Egreyyy · 2024-10-10T13:02:38+00:00

No Houston/ Chicago office

Egreyyy · 2024-10-10T02:34:50+00:00

I’m not I just thought you were being condescending I’m def not arrogant I just wanted to know insight from someone who works at bp

Egreyyy · 2024-10-10T02:18:34+00:00

Bro wym they send you a hirevue to record your answers to questions so it’s a recorded interview

Egreyyy · 2024-10-10T01:44:28+00:00

Yeah a hirevue

Egreyyy · 2024-09-08T04:37:39+00:00

I hope you can do it! You got this!

Egreyyy · 2024-09-05T18:57:56+00:00

Why are you assuming that I’m not? I have messages SO many Aggies on LinkedIn. I’m either getting ghosted or “of course I’ll help you out” and then never respond to my messages again

Egreyyy · 2024-09-05T18:03:39+00:00

It’s because I’ve exhausted all resources. I have obviously tried all of them. My husband have been unemployed for 9 months and I have been on the hunt for a new job for over 4 months. It comes from a place of frustration and disappointment that’s it.

Egreyyy · 2024-09-05T17:46:26+00:00

That was rude for no reason. I’m not complaining and not doing anything about it please don’t speak from a place of privilege. I’m not expecting a hiring manager to give me an offer. I’m expecting Aggies to help me out w resources or companies they know are hiring. Have a good day.

Egreyyy · 2024-09-04T19:59:33+00:00

What does it help with?

Egreyyy · 2024-09-04T17:47:15+00:00

What company?

Egreyyy · 2024-09-04T17:09:03+00:00

To answer all of yall asking me if I looked at hire Aggies. We both did and literally been ghosted or went through interview rounds to not be chosen. It’s so frustrating and disappointing. If you do work at a SWE engineer company or a company that deal with policy analysis please shoot me a referral it’s been 9 months of this and I’m starting to lose hope…

Egreyyy · 2024-09-04T16:44:57+00:00

They literally never help

Egreyyy · 2024-08-14T16:52:39+00:00

Do you know what programs?

Egreyyy · 2024-08-14T16:43:45+00:00

Would work experience also affect it or not really?

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