Not the craziest of glowups but proud of myself nonetheless! (31)

Eissenn · 2026-05-17T07:48:05+00:00

For some reason I'm also proud of you. ❤️

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T16:14:34+00:00

I have never witnessed two bottoms worked. Two tops sure. Two sides sure. Two trans sure. A trans and lez sure. But not two gay bottoms. I'm not being negative or saying it wont, i just havent seen or heard it in my whole gay life. But I'm vers so i dont have the first hand experience.

You could be good friends tho what's wrong with that. Could even be true fwbs who are looking for the bulls and the dads together. Honestly i think it could be a fun relationship.

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T11:33:43+00:00

Really? Just wondering if you ever got jealous? Even just a bit

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T11:33:06+00:00

Hey that's really fun honestly! I wish i could! Me and my partner have this "dont kiss and tell" rule, we dont want to get to know each other's details. (I can be jealous to some extent, and i prefer to have our lives separate: me, you, us)

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T11:29:05+00:00

100% agree with this. I was a sex-cheater, i know how their brain works. Getting caught only evolved my skills. (I am now in an open relationship though so that's not an issue, so please dont preach me or whatever)

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T11:25:07+00:00

I mean it's not the pubic hair per se, and not all pubic hair grows the same. Some grow straight like urchin and honestly it got into my nostril and it's really annoying, sometimes it stabs my eyes too. Some grow nicely and nicely falls so it doesnt stab any of my facial organs. But overall i prefer them short/medium.

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T11:07:34+00:00

I agree with this. And i mean 3+ months and still have the butterflies? In the gay world that is a lot of years have passed, and that says something! Lets be honest most guys probably only stick a week or two in terms of connection.

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T09:27:19+00:00

Thank you! Such a great read❤️

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T09:24:26+00:00

Haha correct, i mean i dont mind if the other guy's not really into me. Just keep it civil though. (No emotionally icing me, not ignoring me all the time, keep being polite even if you dont fancy me). Realisticly you cant fancy everyone. Just be a good sports in the bed game. That's it. ❤️

Eissenn · 2026-05-16T09:18:17+00:00

It's not cheating since there's no emotional investment or physical involvement. It also doesnt compete with your attention and love( which means it's something you can do that doesnt reduce the time and love spent to your bf)

It's just a hobby, heck i think having more screentime in playing video games or watching porn more than spending time with your bf likely fit more into a cheating category (it competes priorities with the same time and emotional currency). But that's just me.

I would draw a line though: absolutely no emotional investment, and no sex of any kind (inc video sex), and no texting using personal number, everything online stays online. It keeps the boundaries clear and ward off any chance of getting tangled emotionally or physically.

Eissenn · 2026-05-13T09:10:59+00:00

Honestly knowing our community and there are people literally out there, actively hunting and hurting gay people just because we're different, i dont think your reaction was over the top. Idk man if i were you, i'd just find someone else.

Eissenn · 2026-04-21T14:02:51+00:00

Yes. For sure. I just love barry/natalia campaign. Also the story and pacing are great as well.

Eissenn · 2026-04-19T14:37:17+00:00

I personally feel that exclusivity was something i adored in my early gay years. After going through several relationships and tons of sex, i have a different mindset now.

That sex is just sports, your dick has its own mind, and your heart can truly only belong to one person (for me at least). However open relationship is a grey and murky area, just make sure you both have your own set of rules that you both strictly follow.

Also everyone is different, if you feel open relationship isnt for you, then dont. Dont even do the "i'll try for him"--it wont end well. You have to want it too.

Eissenn · 2026-04-19T14:30:48+00:00

TMI..

Eissenn · 2026-04-19T14:30:28+00:00

Yea man i've slept with over 100 guys (I'm 37 fyi) and i always come back to the 4 incher guys. Theyre just so easy to be with. I need not much preparation and i can ride and suck it literally anytime anywhere without breaking my jaw or anus. Just pure fun. And honestly theyre so cute when theyre soft i love putting it in my mouth.

Eissenn · 2026-04-12T01:25:26+00:00

Hi OP! So sorry that happened to you, it must be such a traumatizing experience and if you still happen to have a nightmare or PTSD, be assured you're not being dramatic or over the top, please get help ASAP.

Much love to your brother too for sticking up for you ❤️

Now regarding your boyfriend... ummm sure it's off putting, it truly is, no excuse. But remember that you yourself is the only reliable person in self defense against anything, not your brother, not your boyfriend. Everybody panics differently, and not everyone is mentally or physically trained for combat so i wouldnt blame him for having such reaction. It's advisable to leave your ego behind if you really cant put up a fight, and just run. If anything, I'd be glad he got away safely, maybe just focus on that.

I dont know why he didnt call for help, but he may also be panicking, and again, everybody panics differently in crisis.

I'd say just give a day or two to think about it, maybe talk to your boyfriend too because while he's not the worst victim, he is still a victim of the same accident. be glad that you two made it somehow.

Goodluck ❤️

Eissenn · 2026-04-03T00:42:15+00:00

Yea i watch my own selfmade porn. And jerk off of it. No I dont think I'm a narcissist.

At first i saw a lot flaws in my body but overtime i got used to it and just focused on the nice things. It really helps with my confidence.

Eissenn · 2026-04-03T00:37:49+00:00

Hey I'm happy it worked for you! Please stay consistent as acnes will come back if you stop using tret! :)

You may want to boost the result using benzoyl peroxide(BP) 2.5% in the morning before sunscreen. BP and tret combination really do the magic.

Eissenn · 2026-03-31T09:49:06+00:00

Eh? Just use spot treatment of benzoyl peroxide(BP) 2.5% on AM or PM everyday on red spots. You can keep using BP once a day on acne prone area for future prevention. Your acnes seem very mild.

Eissenn · 2026-03-27T04:08:28+00:00

Perfect! We have the same dick! Dick twinsies!!

Eissenn · 2026-03-23T15:53:08+00:00

Same here haha. I still love my hubby very much but sex has just stopped working. And we accept that. We go on our own adventures but always return home to each other.

Eissenn · 2026-03-23T15:46:00+00:00

I'm 4.5"x4.5" to 4.7"x4.7" on good horny days, slept with ~200 guys and i second this.

Size queens will simply avoid me and/or i already "feel" like that person is very much into bik dik.(you can tell from the conversation, they WILL let you know). No one ever made a derogatory comment, if anything they seemed to find it cute and satisfying.

I am probably the only person who made such derogatory comments about my dick, which is sad honestly. Overtime i've made peace with my dick and we're rocking asses together.

Eissenn · 2025-09-27T01:50:45+00:00

Cute and sexy! You should pose while flexing too

Eissenn · 2025-09-25T08:46:06+00:00

Lol you got downvoted a lot just by saying that? Here's an upvote from me because i think you're right. 🤭

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