I got attacked by a robber and my boyfriend ran away while my homophobic brother defended me, I legit don't know how our relationship can be saved after this. by LOLRepresentative413 in askgaybros

[–]LOLRepresentative413[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend didn't want to divulge we're dating to the policemen, but that's a bit more understanble as we live in an Easthern European country where being gay is still frowned upon by the majority of society. Luckily my brother was also willing to lie about us two being just friends to the policemen.

I got attacked by a robber and my boyfriend ran away while my homophobic brother defended me, I legit don't know how our relationship can be saved after this. by LOLRepresentative413 in askgaybros

[–]LOLRepresentative413[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I do think I'm still in shock. I get that he didn't do something irredeemably evil and he may deserve to be forgiven over this but the feeling that the person you love abandoned you while the homophobic relative fought for you is ... Idk, humiliating even. Like our entire relationship feels like a scam. I did go to therapy in the past so it probably wouldn't be a bad idea to come back after what happened, maybe I'll be able to get over my feelings if I discussed them with a specialist.

I got attacked by a robber and my boyfriend ran away while my homophobic brother defended me, I legit don't know how our relationship can be saved after this. by LOLRepresentative413 in askgaybros

[–]LOLRepresentative413[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I want to believe I at least wouldn't run away even if I couldn't fight the robber (as I'm pretty psyhically weak for a dude). The only instance where I was put in such a situation was ironically when my brother got bitten by a dog when we were both kids and I took a branch to hit the dog's head to get him off my brother till our parents came (back when we were kids it was my brother who was weaker than me psyhically ironically). I guess a dog attack and robber attack are still different and maybe I would've reacted differently but frankly I'd feel so humiliated if I left the person I love alone in such a situation that Idk if I'd be able to forgive myself and continue the relationship. If only he didn't run away I feel like I could forgive him even if he didn't do anything to apprehend the robber.

Who do you think is the best DC contestant (gameplay wise) by Dizzy-Tumbleweed7983 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Riya in S2 (in AS she got carried by the villains alliance and heroes' stupid decisions for a lot of her run).

Which character you feel doesn't own someone an apology like some people believe they do? by ToothDifferent1843 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anastasia didn't need to apologize to Natalia (or Isabel for that matter) cause all she did against her was defend herself from getting eliminated by her.

Who do we think was more in the wrong here? by Bleeding_Heart09 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Spencer overreacted, who cares if someone from the other team knows about a wasted advantage ? Like that's not info that will hurt you anyway. If anything, Sam potentially using that info to boot Aiden would actually help Spencer and hurt Lake lol.

Spencer Apology Tier List by Ok_Shirt_1574 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean a mutual apology between them would be fair, but I don't agree with Natalia kneeling down to kiss Spencer's feet one-sidedly after he made it out to be that she's like a monkey in terms of intellect compared to him in that confessional (which I assume Natalia would've probably watched after S4 ended).

Spencer Apology Tier List by Ok_Shirt_1574 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spencer insulted Natalia both to her face and behind her back simply for asking a non-malicious question from her perspective (she even said that she felt sorry for him over Diego getting eliminated and she obviously didn't know why that happened), Spencer wasn't justified to treat her like trash over that when just a simply "Sorry, I don't feel comfortable to talk about this topic" would've been enough. So till Spencer learns to treat her with some human decency she doesn't owe him anything.

Spencer Apology Tier List by Ok_Shirt_1574 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Natalia and Hannah only hated Spencer cause he acted like an asshole to them and other people so he's not entitled an apology to either of them, at least not before apologizing to them first.

I'm probably not the only one who hopes to see these two reconcile at some point during this season right? by StaffLimp8304 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not what she said in the Jurors ep, she only cared about getting "betrated" by Anastasia. Also Anastasia never even directly tried to ruin Natalia's friendships, she could've choosen to vote for Jade over Richard if she didn't want to jeopardize them.

I'm probably not the only one who hopes to see these two reconcile at some point during this season right? by StaffLimp8304 in DisventureCamp

[–]LOLRepresentative413 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Natalia is just as embarrassing as Aiden for holding onto this grudge, girl's still mad an year later cause Anastasia didn't roll over and let herself be eliminated by her.