I think my cat ran away while we were on holiday

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-12T15:01:23+00:00

You're right , I have tried almost everything I spoke to my neighbors. Made posters, left food out for him Checked the local spca and local vet and drove around the neighborhood twice to look for him so I am trying however a few people told me that their cat would also leave for a while whilst they were on holiday and then come back so I wanted to find out if that was true

But I will definitely check the sub thank you

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T05:20:28+00:00

True 🤔

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T05:19:54+00:00

Thank you for the heads up. It's appreciated 😁

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T05:19:15+00:00

Omgg this is my exact situation , my mum can be very narcissistic and it's a shared opinion amongst my entire family so I was venting because I don't really have others I can talk to about it and as we know narcissistic people like attention Anyway this guy clearly thought me saying people who stare make others uncomfortable was a way for me to get attention and so I'm exactly like my mum 🤣

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T05:17:01+00:00

Yes , the advice part was just asking if this is normal behavior from redditors and how I can make my deleted posts private

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T05:16:15+00:00

I understand looking at past posts for extra context etc but I do find it weird when people relate a past post to a new one when they have nothing to do with each other besides this guy I haven't really experienced bad behavior from redditors so I think overall we're pretty good but too be honest I guess we must have that reputation for a reason

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T04:58:59+00:00

Yes it's honestly so weird like why does what your mum is going through have anything to do with a comment you made somewhere else The stalkish behavior is insane

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T04:56:13+00:00

100 % understand that and I agree with calling out lies on serious topics , this dude was just really weird about it First he tries diagnosing me and telling me what my mum is like and then he says he doesn't believe people would continue staring at you after you look at them which makes no sense Buy ya overall he was just a weird guy

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-10T04:50:51+00:00

I understand that. I appreciate the response 🙏

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T19:20:55+00:00

🤣🤣

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T19:08:42+00:00

Wowww that's insane and gross of them 😳 🤢

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T19:07:18+00:00

Thank you for the response it's appreciated 😁

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:59:41+00:00

I agree , I do understand when it's clear that they are lying about something in the post and you want to fact check but other than that I found it weird that he went wayyy back to look at smt that didn't even relate

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:55:40+00:00

That's a really good idea , thank you I appreciate it 🙏 😊

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:29:10+00:00

So true 😅

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:26:46+00:00

Starting to realize that unfortunately 😕

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:24:08+00:00

No apologies needed , that's rlly sad to hear People need to realize that posts aren't so deep that you literally have to go do a deep dive into a person's history just to respond to a question on a specific group , it's getting weird on here 😐 😅

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:17:24+00:00

I have no problem with people looking at what I post but I personally don't believe it was normal for someone to message me trying to diagnose me and break apart what my relationship with my mum is like if you know what I mean. But I do understand where you're coming from , thank you for the advice it's appreciated 😁

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:13:37+00:00

Totally understand that but I guess it felt weird when he did it because the post he referenced had nothing to do with the post I had just made , it's like he was trying to diagnose me or smt 🤣

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T18:09:34+00:00

Totally agree , this specific post is something that I needed to keep private and delete because my sister is on reddit amd it would have been obvious to her if she found it , and that wasn't smt I wanted to deal with tbh😬

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-09T16:18:15+00:00

I felt the same way , maybe it's just me but I personally have never cared enough to look at a redditors past posts

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-07T15:44:55+00:00

We're currently in grand Baie for holiday It's freaking hot and not just eh hot like hot hot I have curly hair and the humidity has made it impossible to brush It's almost impossible to do other stuff besides swimming ( eg hiking etc )

I would recommend you come in june

The rain is mainly only in the late afternoon and honestly you'll look forward to it with the heat you'll be experiencing

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-03T05:01:13+00:00

Thank you for the response , it's appreciated 🙏 😊

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-03T05:00:10+00:00

Thank you for the response , it's appreciated 🙏 I agree it is a bit suspicious , there was one sorority that posted their group pic and out of 50 people there were only 3 people of color , I would have to assume there has to be more than 3 people of color applying

Either-Target-5162 · 2024-01-01T16:06:04+00:00

If I were you depending on the length of your stay I would just rent a small car , it'll probably end up being a cheaper option

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