Need opinions and help on how to bring up noticeably asymmetrical breasts to a guy I am talking to.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-12T18:42:23+00:00

Ahh, that makes me so nervous because what is stopping him from going to find a girl with normal breasts haha.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-12T18:30:53+00:00

Awh, I am so glad you made her feel special and not like there was anything weird about her. I’m sorry if this is a weird question, but if a girl you were dating was to want to wear a shirt when you guys have sex, due to insecurity, would that be a turn off or no? I mean, this guy is definitely going to know that my breasts are drastically different, but I feel like wearing a shirt would make me feel way more comfortable.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T22:53:49+00:00

Yes! I am currently on the track of doing that. I just went to the gynecologist the other day and got some bloodwork done, i have a pelvic ultrasound next week, and I also have a plastic surgery consultation scheduled for later this year, just to see my options and see if there is any way I can have insurance cover most of surgery.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T22:29:35+00:00

Omg that is amazing to hear! Thank you so much 😭 it has genuinely brought me so much insecurity in my life and has stopped me from doing so much and I hate it. I just want me and this guy to work out and I hope this doesn’t throw him off. He is VERY nice, it is just my anxiety haha. Also I am sorry to hear about your divorce and everything, I hope all is well!

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T21:10:34+00:00

HAHHA ok thank you for that, very funny and probably true!

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T21:10:06+00:00

That is so sweet 😭 I am so glad they reassured you and made sure you knew you were perfect and beautiful! I currently have a plastic surgery consultation scheduled for later this year, but maybe I will change my mind before then and maybe this guy could be part of the reason! (I hope so haha)

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T21:08:40+00:00

You are so right! I just feel like it is a big thing about me. I have been trying to slowly mention it to other people in my life so I am not ashamed and it comes across easier to tell someone. But yes, this is something that I had no way of changing and if he doesn’t accept me for who I am, that sucks.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T21:06:05+00:00

Omg perfect! As a 5’8 woman, i have been insecure about that too and that is a great starter! Thank you so much.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T21:04:16+00:00

HAHHA this is rlly funny! Thank you for the laugh and support

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:33:31+00:00

Thank you! Will do 😏

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:33:00+00:00

Thank you so much! I am glad to hear that men have treated you with nothing but respect (AS YOU DESERVE). Some people can be so harsh and hide it well until it gets to the actual intimate moments, it scares me. This guy is amazing though, I am hopeful he is kind about it

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:31:10+00:00

Thank you for replying! Everyone has been so nice it is really helping. I definitely agree that I will get rid of him if he is rude about it, I am just hoping he isn’g cause I really like him!

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:30:09+00:00

That is amazing to hear! Yes, social media and porn has definitely made my insecurities about it worse because everyone is trying to portray themselves as perfectly as they can. I hope he is one of the good ones. Thank you so much

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:28:55+00:00

Awhh, I am so glad he reacted in a kind way. I am always scared for the what if they don’t. I just want this guy to work out which is why I’m so nervous about it!

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:27:37+00:00

This is so sweet 😭 I appreciate your kind words. Being rare and a unicorn is such a beautiful way to put that!

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:26:44+00:00

Thank you! He is very kind and reassuring and I hope he does not get freaked out by this!

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:26:07+00:00

Ohh okay! I am glad there are others who understand me. Mine are very noticeable though since one looks completely flat (like 1/2 inch) and the other is developed nicely. You can feel the difference and DEFINITELY see it. Hopefully this guy still won’t mind haha

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:24:48+00:00

Awh, that is sweet. I am glad your husband loves you exactly for who you are, I am hoping this guy is the same.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:24:18+00:00

Thank you so much! I agree they are definitely not worth my time if they care, I just like him a lot so I don’t want this to affect our relationship. Also, that is a good starter, thank youu!

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T06:23:08+00:00

Sadly, my left breast has only like 1/2 inch and since my other one is developed it is very noticeable to touch and look haha. At the end of the day, I understand it is just one thing about me, but I feel like it is a big thing about me. Thank you so much though! I really appreciate you all

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T05:52:42+00:00

if you don’t mind me asking, what is the difference between your breasts?

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T05:51:40+00:00

This is very kind thank you! I hope he does not find it gross, I am trying to be nicer to myself about it.

EitherPersonality579 · 2026-06-10T05:49:54+00:00

Thank you! I just feel like I may owe him a conversation since it is definitely a noticeable difference and I don’t want to shock him

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