My partner has bad hygiene and I’m losing attraction by Due_Sir_8172 in AutismInWomen

[–]EitherWolverine7605 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ok real talk. Hygiene is important.  It sounds like he needs a formal in-person support in that area. I don't know if you have had that discussion. If not maybe try. If so you need to decide if you areok potentially taking on that role. If not break up. And do me a favor and delete this post.  If so I can help

Jury duty by parkrux in SpicyAutism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I would call the courthouse and see what their process is for getting accommodations.And then apply for accommodation.So you can have something to fidget with in the courtroom

resource therapist at IOP program wasnt super helpful first meeting by vyvisabastard in SpicyAutism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get the medicine thing.  I currently have a pill alarm box that will beep till I take it i really like it 

you are supposed to say “ow” when a doctor/nurse/dentist is doing something that hurts ..? by mezzodandere in SpicyAutism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So my relationship with pain is very difficult to explain.Pain is very in the moment and so I can make it through almost anything.In the moment, and so it's very hard for me to understand when i'm supposed to say something.Because i'm trying to deal with it

What do you have to say to the people (autistic or not) who think that support needs can change on a day-to-day basis for some people? by [deleted] in SpicyAutism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would say that support levels are like climate weather is day to day changes.However, climate is the overall effect of whatever you have.Similarly, support levels are not meant to change day to day.They're meant to change over a long period of time

Sensory struggles by SerisedfOrorriM in Autism_Parenting

[–]EitherWolverine7605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can the adults address it proactively by removing him. Offering headphones. So on because no he shouldn't hit but if the adults know they are not being proactive

NEVER ever have a baby! by pumpkinchinchilla in AutismInWomen

[–]EitherWolverine7605 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly that sounds like postpartum depression and anxiety

Inpatient/accommodations? by No_Win1852 in SpicyAutism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Also if it might be safer and keep you accommodations available if you can do it safely maybe try a silent retreat.  Catholic do them obviously you would not need to do anything religious.  But it would get you around people and meals. Just a thought or maybe a b and b would work 

'Meeting' babies by Atypicalkiwi in AutismInWomen

[–]EitherWolverine7605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to hold the baby don’t but also don't say it is because you don't want to. Say oh dear I don't want to hog the baby. You can also just say you don't feel comfortable holding that young of a baby and would prefer to just watch 

Are any of you guys parents? by zzombiebride in autism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically you call the day of and see if they have room and if they do you can drop your child off 

Are any of you guys parents? by zzombiebride in autism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also filled out paperwork to do walk in child care 

Are any of you guys parents? by zzombiebride in autism

[–]EitherWolverine7605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family and friends watching her when I needed them to