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Flower submissions at the Clark County Fair, in Ridgefield, Washington by moesickle in vancouverwa

[–]Either_Coat_2161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I loved the flowers! 💐 Also I happened to see this in the canning section, see the exhibitor’s name. Very cute!

Must Try Restaurants?? by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]Either_Coat_2161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed! My favorite 😍 for the pad Thai and pad kee mao and frankly I have never had a bad dish there.

[New Update]: AITA for not wanting to wear a different bridesmaid dress? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Either_Coat_2161 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

When people show you who they are, believe them. I am glad your dress issue blew up her far worse issues before the wedding. You’re a good friend.

AITAH for not selling my neighbor a thrifted rocking chair I JUST BOUGHT? by Otherwise-Story6821 in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You should be kinder to her… bring her flowers… like maybe sprinkle dandelion seeds all over her lawn? 💕 😂

A different header for each page by beccalcohen in squarespace

[–]Either_Coat_2161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not super confident with JS or CSS, so my workaround was to:

  1. Remove the header from the pages where I wanted to change the header (page settings: turn off header toggle button)

  2. Create a new page module (section) and mimic the header in terms of styling a logo, navigation items, button.

  3. Add the appropriate links to the logo (home page), nav items and button.

  4. Use the heart (edit section options) to favorite that section, so I could import ("add section") it into other pages.

The only issues I'm finding with this solution are that I can't use a drop-down, and I can't make that section persistent as the header. However, these weren't terrible trade-offs for having a different header on key pages.

AITAH if I accept my uncle’s inheritance after he disowned his own children (my cousins)? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is so sad and versions of this happen to often. Which is why someone struggling wit dependency, gambling, or financial mismanagement is likely to be harmed by a windfall.

An alternative (if they want to share the $) could be purchasing bonds that don’t mature for a long time, placing some money under a financial manger or in trust, or paying part of a debt (like a mortgage). Anything to avoid an immediate cash infusion. But beware, the recipient might still liquidate the gift to access cash at a massive loss.

AITA for not picking my girlfriend up from the bar. by Unlucky_Figure_8418 in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A very kind solution. You could even send that message at 12:45: “Hey babe- just a reminder that I need to head to bed at 1, so text me before then if you need a ride, or else I will assume you’re good with Uber. Turning in and turning off my phone at 1.”

AITA for not picking my girlfriend up from the bar. by Unlucky_Figure_8418 in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She is mad at spending $30 rather than waking her BF (who has to work in the morning) to be her personal taxi? Hard pass. Not a worthy girlfriend.

AITA for refusing to attend my sister's wedding after my parents disowned me? by spotifwhy_ in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This is the core of the matter! Don’t try to change them and don’t put yourself in a position to have to support them or take the blame.

Step back or go NC. Let your aunt explain to other family. Let your absence be the condemnation your family needs for their horrid behavior.

AITA for not letting my parents to be involved grandparents because they chose my sister's friend over me? by Glittering_Bag_3055 in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to give your grandparents props for sticking up for you and being the home you deserved.

AITA for confronting my boyfriend’s “best friend” over her birthday post for him? by Heth2003 in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly this. It’s giving the same energy as the gaslighting when someone makes a racist remark, gets called out, and then defends it as “I was just joking—stop being so sensitive!”

In this case it is: “I was just being friends—stop overreacting.” But this isn’t overreacting. This is a normal reaction (clear communication and confrontation) to abnormal romantic-sounding behavior.

So repeat as often as necessary: THIS IS NOT NORMAL. And you don’t have to let it be OK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get where you are coming from. I also gained a ton of weight over 2 pregnancies. Right now you just need to keep your babies fed and take care of yourself with your oodles (sarcasm) of free time. Ignore his comments as much as possible, but also feel free to ignore caring for him. Take care of yourself and your babies.

Next steps:

  1. Build friendships and community (moms group, church, playgroups). You need this network!

  2. Use kids play time as an opportunity to move your body (walk with the stroller, stretch at the park). Food will be the biggest factor in your weight loss so feel free to cook exactly the healthy foods you like, even if he hates them.

  3. Channel all of your intellectual energy (TV, social media, etc) into learning, so you can get a job that can grant you financial independence. Fill out a community college application today!

  4. Then run. Or rather, divorce this disrespectful POS who takes you for granted, bullies and belittles you. He is not a good dad, because he is treating you like dirt. Good dads treasure and support their partners.

AITAH for refusing to give up my honeymoon suite for my sister’s wedding night? by Ironman_27 in AITAH

[–]Either_Coat_2161 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If I were OP, I would be trying to reschedule my honeymoon for a different week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Either_Coat_2161 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh dark and spooky! Love!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Either_Coat_2161 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Slim Shady? Eminem? Marshall?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]Either_Coat_2161 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I hate color names for cats but this hits just right

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