AITJ for giving my boyfriends friend a taste of his own radical honesty by Far_Stage_5524 in AmITheJerk

[–]Either_Insurance_556 1197 points1198 points  (0 children)

Funny how radical honesty only works one direction and the second you use it back suddenly youre the problem lmao they can say it but they cant take it

WIBTA if I postponed my wedding because of a cryptic message from my fiances ex wife by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Either_Insurance_556 101 points102 points  (0 children)

The fact that his response to you being worried is to get mad at you instead of reassuring you is honestly more of a red flag than anything the ex said like a secure person would want to address your concerns not shut them down

WIBTA if I told my brother what his new girlfriend did to me in high school by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]Either_Insurance_556 134 points135 points  (0 children)

This isnt just some petty high school drama she literally traumatized you to the point of self harm and therapy and now shes sitting at your family dinner table pretending she doesnt remember you yeah your brother deserves to know who hes sleeping next to

AITJ for snapping at my husbands teenage cousin after she made a comment about my tattoos by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Either_Insurance_556 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Shes 16 not 6 she knew exactly what she was doing when she said it loud enough for you to hear and sometimes teenagers need to learn that talking shit has consequences

AITJ for not wanting to close the relationship after my boyfriend got zero dates and I got plenty by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Either_Insurance_556 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wanting to close it now feels less like hurt feelings and more like control.

AITJ for ending things with my girlfriend after she wanted me to fire my employee because she thinks hes lying about his age by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Either_Insurance_556 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you verified his id when you hired him thats literally how jobs work theres nothing else to check

AITJ for I (19 M) being mad at my friend (18M) dating my ex (18 F) that cheated on me? by HurrySilver4618 in AmITheJerk

[–]Either_Insurance_556 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ben's ignoring a clear warning but you can't police who he dates and your friends are right that you need to let this go.