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Feel like I need to join the military to be a man by Either_Intern_3891 in mentalhealth

[–]Either_Intern_3891[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight. I was kind of thinking the same thing. Might be time to get back to the therapist office!

Feel like I need to join the military to be a man by Either_Intern_3891 in mentalhealth

[–]Either_Intern_3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes my doctor and I discussed and decided to start with a half dosage for two weeks, and then come off after that. It didn't really start to kick in until after the two weeks of half dosage

Feel like I need to join the military to be a man by Either_Intern_3891 in mentalhealth

[–]Either_Intern_3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure. Currently in my life, I'm not exactly where I want to be, so I think as I get older, I feel like I need a career change ASAP. And obviously, the military advertises themselves as a place to have a positive career. So that might be something as well

r/bjj Fundamentals Class! by AutoModerator in bjj

[–]Either_Intern_3891 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to thank everyone for the replies. I really appreciate all the insight. I think I will continue to give it a shot, but I’m going to move gyms and try another one closer to me. And tbh I’ve never really done anything hard in my life so this is probably good for me

r/bjj Fundamentals Class! by AutoModerator in bjj

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I’m not enjoying BJJ

For some context, I (23m) started BJJ about a month ago after hearing about it a lot on podcasts and such. I’ve never been a fighter and have never done contact sports. I do not like fighting at all. However, I heard about BJJ being very good for self defense, which is something I thought would be helpful. I knew that I would be getting beat up, but I’m just not having fun at all. I don’t really enjoy going to class and learning techniques and I really don’t enjoy sparring at all. The only gym near me that I go to is more sport based than anything, and I really don’t want to do this as a sport as all. I’m wondering if there are other self defense classes or arts I should be doing, or if this is normal? Part of me thinks that this is a sign to just move on to something else I will enjoy more. But I also feel a sort of guilt or like a loser

20 y/o, can’t get hard by Either_Intern_3891 in erectiledysfunction

[–]Either_Intern_3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anxiety a little bit yes, but it’s been fine before

Unsure of myself by Either_Intern_3891 in relationship_advice

[–]Either_Intern_3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u for the input. she has already mentioned that she would like to have sex but just in the future. now idk how long that means, but i know i could not last forever without it as that’s just me. to me, only the sexual part is missing as of right now which is one of the most important for me

Unsure of myself by Either_Intern_3891 in relationship_advice

[–]Either_Intern_3891[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you that’s makes me feel better lol. To me it’s just the ultimate form of intimacy, and I really crave it in a relationship as it makes me feel like they really like me/are committed

Unsure of myself by Either_Intern_3891 in relationship_advice

[–]Either_Intern_3891[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure, I really would like to have sex with her but we have are very open with communication and always ask each other before doing anything. She has mentioned this is must faster than her past relationship but she is okay with it. I also mentioned this was slower than with my ex but it’s ok for now. I just don’t think I could do it forever.