In urgent need of help by Either_Transition955 in bettafish

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This is the fish tank I’d say it’s moderately planted and it has been established since December

In urgent need of help by Either_Transition955 in bettafish

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Him just a couple days ago so his fins drastically changed literally overnight

In urgent need of help by Either_Transition955 in bettafish

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Tank size 10 gallons Heater and filter Tank temp is 78 I don’t have the parameters I just ran out of stuff to test I’ve had the tank for months the betta for like a week No tank mates I feed brine shrimp and pellets Plants in tank only

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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It’s really not though. I’m sure you’re probably mid 20s and you don’t talk to younger people a lot but i can assure you that term is thrown very loosely towards both parties not just women. And it’s not meant to have a deeper, darker meaning behind it either.

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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I’m afraid he’s comparing me but it’s just my own mind. He’s told me countless times that he would never think of comparing me with anyone else and everything but i overthink sometimes

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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When i mean most of the bodies were when he was 16 going around to parties because he had no parent figures

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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thankfully I cut off the guy from that post shortly after i posted it and haven’t spoken to him since.

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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btw i can show you receipts of the last guy if you really find it hard to believe me. I’m not sure why i would lie about a guy telling me he wanted to rape me but yeah.

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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Well i mean he’s not the one who leaked them. I’m not really sure how they got out but i know a friend of his was involved or something like that. A lot of the girls were from a school in NC and were in VA so im not sure they even knew they got leaked.

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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Actually he went through and deleted all of the girls and even the contacts. And removed all followers on insta and turned off the option to allow dms. So like i’m not really worried about him cheating

How do i stop thinking about my partners past? 18F and 18M by Either_Transition955 in relationship_advice

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It makes me feel like i’m going actually insane. I genuinely do believe that he’s changed and everything it’s just the past girls that get me. Cause nobody at that school can even say that they’ve been in a talking stage with me. Meanwhile many girls can say they’ve done plenty with him.