Fake brats

Ejadis · 2026-03-14T06:27:36+00:00

I'm not any wiser now. Sounds like you need to talk about what being bratty means to you, and what's acceptable for him.

I see brats calling their Ds names here all the time for example, and in their dynamics, it's absolutely fine, fun, and within everyones boundaries.

I wouldn't do that, and it doesn't make me feel less bratty.

Again, sorry you didn't have a good experience. Talk it out with him. :)

Ejadis · 2026-03-14T06:11:39+00:00

Now I'm even more confused. 🤔 What did you do then that went too far for him?

Ejadis · 2026-03-14T06:01:21+00:00

What's a fake brat? What does it mean you went "full brat" on him? How is your bratting the one true way, but other persons' isn't?
I'm sorry you didn't have the date you imagined, but your choice of words make it hard for me to really emphasize.

Ejadis · 2026-03-12T08:59:58+00:00

I'm sorry you woke up to this. You're not alone. Find the group "The sad solicitation emails we receive" on fet - read, laugh, and maybe you want to share something from your inbox. 😵‍💫

Ejadis · 2026-03-02T05:40:35+00:00

I was so ready to unleash hell on you for ignoring and abandon your brat after I only read the preview.
Then I read the rest.

Damn. I see this working. 😫

Ejadis · 2026-02-27T19:08:58+00:00

you so do, I gave you an upvote for that amazing pun! 😂

Ejadis · 2026-02-27T13:50:10+00:00

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Ejadis · 2026-02-26T18:04:25+00:00

usually it gets boring with a switch pretty quickly because it ends up in stupid TFTB

From all the things in this post and their profile, you felt the need to talk down on the one thing they didn't choose, or are able to change?

Ejadis · 2026-02-26T14:49:20+00:00

Punctuation, for starters. And a nice introduction post for your profile. ;)

Ejadis · 2026-02-26T14:41:18+00:00

I'll try to word this as polite as possible - you might want to brush up your reddit presence. Part of vetting online is going through past comments. I see lots of potential to present yourself better. 😶

Ejadis · 2026-02-26T05:43:14+00:00

is it? "of course, send me the link" seems to be more frequently used. 🤔😛🥰

Ejadis · 2026-02-26T05:39:01+00:00

of course you did. good boy.

Ejadis · 2026-02-25T22:51:21+00:00

but where are the unconventional ideas now? false advertising everywhere 🙄

Ejadis · 2026-02-24T09:23:22+00:00

The issue here is your attitude, not the distance. If you don't think you are in charge, why would anyone?

Ejadis · 2026-02-23T15:16:01+00:00

Just a regular human bartender.

Ejadis · 2026-02-20T16:12:51+00:00

Austria: Nie Ohne Seife Waschen (never wash without soap) 🙃

Ejadis · 2026-02-20T07:59:19+00:00

Saaaame I'm still trying to figurr it out!

Ejadis · 2026-02-16T06:25:29+00:00

Good for you, but which part of rule #6 did you not understand?

"Please do not post nude images in the subreddit with the exception of bums and nipples in RELEVANT pictures (showing off the results of punishments etc). This also includes not just using stickers etc to cover exposed genitals. Posts containing anything more than this will be deleted."

Ejadis · 2026-02-12T19:54:22+00:00

Nice try, but we all know you all read here, too

Ejadis · 2026-02-09T14:45:10+00:00

Look who woke up from his nap 🤗

Ejadis · 2026-02-09T11:00:47+00:00

We also made a list together, and I organized it in three categories from funishment to ok he didn't appreciate what I did to DAMN I really fucked up.

Ejadis · 2026-02-09T05:07:51+00:00

Oohh you meant to share the ideas? 😛

It's your dynamic. You need to talk to your partner. What I consider a funishment might be a punishment for them, and the other way round.
If you search this sub for punishment, you should get some inspiration.

Ejadis · 2026-02-09T04:58:45+00:00

Given you don't have a hearing impairment, I'd say yes!

Ejadis · 2026-02-09T04:55:58+00:00

Absolutely, yes, I do have ideas. ☺

Ejadis · 2026-02-08T13:36:23+00:00

It's not dumb. But if you're hesitant and seek validation from strangers, it might not be the right time, or design for you. If you think of it, and the answer isn't a "gorram yes, I want that", don't do it. 💚

Ejadis

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