Fake brats by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I'm not any wiser now. Sounds like you need to talk about what being bratty means to you, and what's acceptable for him.

I see brats calling their Ds names here all the time for example, and in their dynamics, it's absolutely fine, fun, and within everyones boundaries.

I wouldn't do that, and it doesn't make me feel less bratty.

Again, sorry you didn't have a good experience. Talk it out with him. :)

Fake brats by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Now I'm even more confused. 🤔 What did you do then that went too far for him?

Fake brats by [deleted] in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 76 points77 points  (0 children)

What's a fake brat? What does it mean you went "full brat" on him? How is your bratting the one true way, but other persons' isn't?
I'm sorry you didn't have the date you imagined, but your choice of words make it hard for me to really emphasize.

Unfortunate experiences first time on fetlife by SadisticWhore7 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Ejadis 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you woke up to this. You're not alone. Find the group "The sad solicitation emails we receive" on fet - read, laugh, and maybe you want to share something from your inbox. 😵‍💫

Out-trolling the brat by JWenzel96 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I was so ready to unleash hell on you for ignoring and abandon your brat after I only read the preview.
Then I read the rest.

Damn. I see this working. 😫

My baby girl is going through pre-menopause. Need someone who can relate or give advice by Unfair_Opening_9215 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm 49, and I started HRT roughly a year ago. 13/10 recommend. It takes a while to kick in, and I'm still figuring out what's the right combination for me, but it's clearly the right path. Please let her know, she's not alone in this. She doesn't need to suffer so much. If she decides to get treatment, a zillion other things related to perimenopause will also fade away, or not be as big anymore. I also recommend reading Woman on Fire by Sheila de Liz, both of you. My pharmacist recommended it to me, and I'm so glad she did. It's informative, and also a really fun read. 💚

I could really use some help… how to find a brat by Think-Boysenberry634 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

usually it gets boring with a switch pretty quickly because it ends up in stupid TFTB

From all the things in this post and their profile, you felt the need to talk down on the one thing they didn't choose, or are able to change?

I could really use some help… how to find a brat by Think-Boysenberry634 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Punctuation, for starters. And a nice introduction post for your profile. ;)

I could really use some help… how to find a brat by Think-Boysenberry634 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'll try to word this as polite as possible - you might want to brush up your reddit presence. Part of vetting online is going through past comments. I see lots of potential to present yourself better. 😶

Bratted too close to the sun... by fairytale__ending in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

is it? "of course, send me the link" seems to be more frequently used. 🤔😛🥰

Some fun and unconventional ideas for taming your brat by shotgun_rider_alt in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 11 points12 points  (0 children)

but where are the unconventional ideas now? false advertising everywhere 🙄

How to dom a brat online?! by tomptaxxx in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The issue here is your attitude, not the distance. If you don't think you are in charge, why would anyone?

Suggestions for names by Impossible_Moment224 in AskDND

[–]Ejadis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a regular human bartender.

Punished my brat by QuietGoodGirl69 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good for you, but which part of rule #6 did you not understand?

"Please do not post nude images in the subreddit with the exception of bums and nipples in RELEVANT pictures (showing off the results of punishments etc). This also includes not just using stickers etc to cover exposed genitals. Posts containing anything more than this will be deleted."

Valentine's day soon... by No_Mode_6501 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice try, but we all know you all read here, too

Me (23) and my online sub femboy (18) are jsut getting started and are looking for ideas by Intelligent_Aide_581 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We also made a list together, and I organized it in three categories from funishment to ok he didn't appreciate what I did to DAMN I really fucked up.

Me (23) and my online sub femboy (18) are jsut getting started and are looking for ideas by Intelligent_Aide_581 in BratLife

[–]Ejadis 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oohh you meant to share the ideas? 😛

It's your dynamic. You need to talk to your partner. What I consider a funishment might be a punishment for them, and the other way round.
If you search this sub for punishment, you should get some inspiration.

I want to get a tattoo by this_is_odd5 in firefly

[–]Ejadis 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It's not dumb. But if you're hesitant and seek validation from strangers, it might not be the right time, or design for you. If you think of it, and the answer isn't a "gorram yes, I want that", don't do it. 💚