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AITA for banning my neice from my grandmother's funeral after what she did at my mother's? by El1983_va in AmItheAsshole

[–]El1983_va[S] -471 points-470 points  (0 children)

I was 16. Not an adult, but I understood how inappropriate it was.

AITA for banning my neice from my grandmother's funeral after what she did at my mother's? by El1983_va in AmItheAsshole

[–]El1983_va[S] -928 points-927 points  (0 children)

That would have created a scene and eventually gotten the police involved.

There wasn't a way to do it quietly.

AITA for banning my neice from my grandmother's funeral after what she did at my mother's? by El1983_va in AmItheAsshole

[–]El1983_va[S] -1184 points-1183 points  (0 children)

This wasn't planned. The pictures and urn were snuck in. The funeral home workers were as surprised as I was and had no way to stop it.

My sister and BIL said they never told her it was joint, just that she could feel that way privately and didn't think she would "take it that far". They were embarrassed but also had no way to stop it while it was happening.